I'm feeling suicidal...help me please..?

Question

I have no friends in class at all. All have cliques & best friends while i have none. During flag raising,project works and recess,always no one is willing to be with me. They'll only stand with me grudgingly when there's really no place. And they seem to hate me lots,i feel being so left out in the class...help. I'm going to face them for 2 years..what should I do..im gonna die..people juz keep ostracizing me for no reason..am I so detestable?? Plus I keep failing my tests because i really feel unhappy in my class..what kept me hanging on is my caring family..but i cant take this anymore...

Answer 1

Your insecurity is keeping them away. Your body language is telling them "don't come near me" despite what you are telling us. They don't have to do all the work either. You can't always rely on others to come to your first. You have to make the move too. It goes both ways. With that said, if you are feeling this depressed, therapy might be in order to figure out why you are so insecure and depressed.

Answer 2

hmmm... Now i have no real experience in this matter but i felt that should say something because of what your title said. I dont feel that suicid is ever the anwser, and that what doesnt kill us makes us stronger. I graudated from highschool a few years ago and then moved away to go to school. I remember feeling kind of like you described, i didnt have anyfriends, i didnt like any of my classes, and even thought i had 3 roommates that i had only met the day before classes started I still felt alone because i didnt really know anyone. It was hard going through the first semester, the only people i knew were four hours away, and my girlfriend had just moved six states away. But i kept in mind that i was going to school to get an education and not to make friends, and be popular. Once i started to focus on my work and not on the way i felt all the time, i start to slowly meet new people. Sure there were a lot of night when i cried my self to sleep cause i felt like no one cared but i never gave up. Now im graduation from college in two monthes and I have plenty of friends. I guess what im trying to say is that you cant give up, we need to take things one day at a time and when things get tought just remember, that is just one day and that tomorrow is a new start.

Answer 3

I am going to assume that you are in Jr High. That being said, take it from someone who has been there. There is nothing wrong with you. Just go about your business, get good grades, and things WILL work themselves out. I didn't have any real friends until my Junior Year of High school and here I am talking to you about it.

As a side note, suicide is an awfully permanent solution to a very temporary problem. You've got your whole life in front of you. You'll meet some really cool people along the way, you'll find an absolutely beautiful woman who you'll marry and have a family with, and you'll have a great job.

Plus, in 10 years, at the high school reunion, you'll see how far the people you admire now have fallen. Jocks will be burnouts, cheerleaders will have gotten fat and ugly, and the people who are left out now.....will be the people everyone will be admiring on that day. Hang in there kiddo.

Answer 4

It will end even though it will seem like an eternity, I had a similar experience but then I left school got a job and have plenty of friends. Its something you and most people just grow out of. Imagine what it must have been like for Maralyn Manson at school? Dont waste your energy on it, focus your attention on what you are going to do after you leave. One day you will wake up you will be in a job, you will have friends and it will be as if it never happened. Kids pick on other kids because they can, they just look for something to pick on and if you happen to be handy then tough. Who cares what they think? Do you care if monkeys throw bananas at you?
The new world order is starting soon so hang on

Answer 5

Don't let people rule you. We are on this plane of existence to accomplish goals and learn. When it is all said and done we have to answer for our own actions in life. Don't let one of those be why you took your life over something so trivial. This is but a fraction of what life is. High school is not the world. Just focus on being the best person you can without them because reality is if you fail you can't blame them. You are the master of your universe. So focus on your studies and be yourself. Things will hash themselves out if you just stay strong and not get caught up in wanting to belong because really high school friendships don't always last a life time.

Stay strong and don't give up. You will see that things do get a whole lot better.

Answer 6

hey, listen your not alone. your not the only person feeling outcasted in the world. It takes guts to put your story on here too. just realize that your worth more than you'll ever know to more people than you'll ever know. So what if the kids dont talk to you? its their loss, but dont let them win. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy, even if it is something you do by yourself. talking about it is a very good first step into figuring out the problem at hand. You sound like a great person and suicide is def. not a good idea. You have so much to offer and your not even giving it a chance. I dont even know you personally and i dont want to see you come to that point, I want you to have a great life and pursue things. I dont know how religious you are but Im very close to God and obviously he doenst want you to come to a point of suicide either.

People all have hard times in life, have faith that its just a phase and it really does get better, find love in your family and never let it go, find faith to guide you and friends will come along.

I wish you the best,

Answer 7

bah.. You would end you life just because another person? You should not let others make you sad. Many people don't have friends and they live on. You have to find other things to do and not think so much on how you are alone. I do not know how you act but maybe if you go out and talk to the people and not stand there waiting for them to come to you. May be if you try the things they do then they may start to talk to you. Look on the bright side of things. Don't think only on the bad thoughts.

Answer 8

You can take it...really.
YOu just haven't found your place yet, it will come, you need to get involved and stop worrying so much about what "they" think about you, who cares?...I mean really ,,,,when you are grown up this will be a very minor thing, I know right now it makes you feel horrible but it will pass.
I used to be you, I started by doing nice things for people, animals, I volunteered and made friends, other good people who didn't think they fit in either....
It just isn't worth the plunge sweety, things could all turn around for you tomorrow...
I would suggest strongly that you talk to a parent or teacher, they can help you alot, we don't know you, what have yo got to lose?...A trusted adult needs to hear this from you,,,,do it today, you have NOTHING to lose and if you care about your family and not yourself, do it for them, they deserve that much and so do you....hang in...

Answer 9

Suicide is for losers, there's never anything that bad. I thought about it for a year or two. Now I am happily married with a baby on the way, it may take a little time, but there is a plan for everyone, give it time to develop and you will see a great future.

Answer 10

hey dis is yukira guide . now listen carefully. people dislike u becoz of reasons . in my case class boycotted me wen i was 15 coz they thought i was backbiter and selfish and made them break into groups .//but dis wasnt true.... i was unlucky enough and spent 2 yrs cryin depresed and unhappy... i didnt tell my family feelin theyll b worried.
i learnt a lesson ... wich is dat say "SORRY " to people u feel uve hurt. demand a second chance. say u wil b a better person dis time. improve urself rather than feelin to suicide.
suicide is escaping and not firm solution... do u want to be called a coward after u die????NNOOOOOOOOOO ofkorse no. so try to make friends starin wid sorry. nd if u r nt atractive.. bathe everyday smell good use deodrant and perfumes while to skool... all wil get atracted. get a gud hair cut//// look smart attract guys or girls ... u should try to get girls /guys mad after ur personality.
speak softly to all... dont fight....impress all by helpin but don be a dumb also..
best of luck!!!!!!!