We met. We fell in love. We had a long distance relationship. We moved in together. All in two and half years time. One day I notice that things between us are getting cold. The little things set it off like she started not asking me how my day went and stopped giving me any affection. I ask her about it and one day she decides that her feelings for me are not as strong as they once were and that she thinks she wants to move out. I've treated her like gold and gave it my best. We still live together now, but she is having a hard time finding a place to live. So until then we are still really close friends and friendly as can be to each other without the regular intimacy we once had. My heart hurts so badly right now.
2007-01-30 01:01:55 · 5 answers · asked by hellafide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that's a tough one and i feel for ya buddy. the good news is that at least it shows you that your capable of loving someone with your heart fully and being one of the good guys in this world. in your mind just come to grips in knowing that your not defeated by this and your going to be OK no matter what the outcome is.i don't want to sound like I'm preaching but have faith in yourself knowing that guys like you aren't a dime-a-dozen and women pick up on that, your an asset that they cant pass up, especially since your they type that's committed enough to live with someone. And hey its not guaranteed that your woman is totally over you, maybe time apart can help her to realize that she doesn't know what shes got until its gone. It happened to me and I got my girl back after 3 years of missing her to death while she moved on, and I would say that those 3 year agonizing years were worth it for her to come back realizing that "us" was the best thing for her, because now her devotion to my is stronger than ever.
Basically what I'm trying to say is its not the end of the world, your a good guy and life will go on regardless of how this turns out. Have faith in God that he gave you a good heart and soul to put into love for a woman one day. Your gunna be fine. I wish you the best
2007-01-30 01:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u have to do is to stop giving her so many attention.
let her know that u really LOVE her but she is not giving u enough time to show it,or mabe she's seeing some one else,or mabe u r not acting like u shood ;u know,acting like u were the first time u meat her,or mabe u love her so much that u dont want her to leave to go any were just act ur self and be normal (TAKE MY FOOLISH ADVICE BCUZ U LOVE HER UR TAKING UR ADVICE FROM A 15 YEAR OLD
BOY).i mabe not right but atlice try.
2007-01-30 01:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by GALLIS(1) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard but sometimes it just doesn't work. She likes you and could even love you but she realizes she is not " In Love with you". You deserve someone who really loves you as does she. Let her go and get busy finding Miss Right, she's out there waiting for you.
2007-01-30 01:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack that ho
2007-01-30 01:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by crackg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋