hey u people i really dont know wat to do in life i have no interest in anything, iam spoiling my life every one says that, no one likes me,i have no gf, i smnoke a lot, my family is poor, i flung in engineering consecutively 2 times, parent shate me, more than hating me i cant c their eyes filled with sarrow bcos of me, i know i can do somethign in life but it is simply i cant do it, i dojt knpw , iam not able to concentrate on things, every one is always teasing me bcos of my baldness, doctor asks a lot of money for the treatment of my sclap infection, plz help me people i want some advice, iam an software engineering student, people always take advantage of me, n iam very sick of the old woman whom i c every day begging on the streets n her son takes all her money away iam sick of the tears which my mom pour out every day bcos of our family quarrels, my sister in laws hate me, i friends think iam not cool like them, pl help me friends i want ur advice, thank u
2007-01-30 01:00:21 · 14 answers · asked by mukesh c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey, life can be cruel at times. but think about it, maybe God is just putting you through a test because God loves you and just wants you to be a better person in future. Some things are just beyond our control but work on what you can do. rite now just concentrate on getting better at what you do, it doesnt matter what people say...only what you think of yourself...
sincerely,
your angel
2007-01-30 01:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by ika liana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
G'day mate, It seems you are a little depressed. Please dont do anything rash, because I have good news for you, what you are feeling is totally a temporary feeling. Your life may be about to change in amazing ways. You will be a very sucessful person one day, I just know it.
First of all I want you to understand that being depressed is a state of mind and do not allow this feeling to identify you, or make you believe the what it is making you feel. You are alive and have a beautiful long healthy life ahead of you. But there are a few steps to take to get there, first of all, you must find someone you can help in some way actually you must find as many people as possible that you can help, even if its just a small thing you can do like open a door, or do a load of washing for your mum and hang it out, anything but what you must do is start putting others needs as a priority in your life and giving to others as a priority, and I dont necessarily mean money, you can give a smile to someone for free and it will make them feel good for hours. Baldness is quirky and some people find it attractive. Get over it you can use it to your advantage. If your ears dont stick out too much you can shave it all off for a cool new look that could make you swim faster and stand out in a crowd for being confidant and proud of you intelligent head.
Sisters in law are not your concern simply smile at them and try not to judge or get involved in their issues.
Imagine what it will be like when you have your own children oneday, you will be so protective of your own child and not want it to suffer, your mother loves you and she has always done the best she could with what she had for you. Your mum carried you for her whole pregnancy and will love you like no other person on this planet in a way very similar to a creator could be. Tell her you love her and that you are doing your best right now, tell her how you are feeling and ask for her help she might be able to help you somehow.
I know you will be ok because as soon as you start to give to others and take the focus off yourself, you will receive the blessings in return in your own life from others.
2007-01-30 01:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Alison M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well babe, if ya want to quit smoking, QUIT! I cannot understand your problem with your baldness. If your baldness is caused by your scalp infection, then to me, that is that. I think depression causes are bodies to get run-down. Makes us vulnerable to infections and dieseases. You are going to have to pick yourself up and get with the program of LIFE. Eat right, small walks, and try to change your attitude. Your perception of what people are thinking is your problem. For one - take care of you and do not worry so much what others are thinking. Be kind, work hard, quit smoking, and keep going. If you are already seeing a doctor, maybe you should consider an anti-depressant. Anti-depressants do not have to be for life, but they can help for the time being. You correct you, and you will see life in a different light, trust me. Babysteps mister. Try it! I could not even imagine being able to attend engineering school, so give yourself some credit. Good luck my dear sir!
2007-01-30 01:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say all the bad things in your life. You should think of the good things in your life. You should start to help yourself by stop smoking and study more for school. You can also try to work out more so your health can improve. You can wear hats to cover the hair loss while you get that hair for men that makes you grow back the hair. One major thing to do first is to look at the good things in your life. Then you can see what you can do to improve the bad things. You can succeed if you have the will to strive and make yourself a better life.
2007-01-30 01:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Inuchan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up the address for the LA chamber of commerce. Write/email them. They will send you loads of information about the city. They even have videos of the town. There is also a program you can get involved in. Foreign exchange students. If your school does not offer them, there are sites on the web and people you can get involved with. The more you email the chamber, the more they will send you. Even movie stars addresses are available. Do not hate your life. God has a purpose for you being here. Make everyday count.
2016-03-15 02:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget all about yourself for a while, and go out every day and see how many people you can make happy, or make their lives a little better. Just dedicate your life for a specified amt. of time(30) days,to helping others less fortunate,elderly, or disabled. I bet this will change your life for the better. You have to be totally unselfish for this to work.
2007-01-30 01:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, every one in the world living with out knowing the destination point or target simply waking up doing the work
So dont fell anything about ur friends comment dont borther about anything
First wake up early morning finish ur morning work pray to GOD
then obey ur parents, automatically ur problem will solve for everything consult ur parents give respect to ur parents
2007-01-30 01:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a sabatical, go away somewhere remote and lie low until you define YOUR dreams. Before you get to this remote place and work a menial job to support your daily living needs vist the library and read and seek introspection and direction from those who have sought and discovered what you are yearning for. AIN'T NO BODY GONNA DO IT FOR YA!!!
2007-01-30 01:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Cleopatra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't skip life is good but we have to understand it give you self a break and look to your life from all over side you will see that your life is great or it was great in Little time back still everything is there .
DONT SKIP fight..
2007-01-30 01:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nads 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest with ya life is a pain sometimes, its not worth ending, if ya have a death wish, well I can think of a million other ways to do something than taking my own, for that you have to use your own head, because I aien't contributing ideas.
2007-01-30 01:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by mcrowe93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋