im only 15 and today im going for my first women check up at the health department....?

Question

CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THERE GONNA DO??
AND WHAT KINDA THINGS THERE GONNA BE LOOKING FOR?? AND WAYS I CAN FEEL RELAXED BECAUSE IM REALLY NERVOUS AND SCARED ABOUT WHAT KINDS OF THINGS THERE GONNA SAY??
ALSO ARE THEY GONNA BE GIVIG ME ANY TEST?? FOE EXAMPLE TO CHECK FOR AIDS,STDS OR PREGNANCY

Answer 1

Relax that is the best thing you can do
I was the same age my first time to the doctor and I wanted my mom in there with me and they let her in there it helped me fell more comfortable
They will use a medal thing to open you up and then they swab your cervix a few times than they take out the medal thing and your done
It is no big deal it will be OK
They will know if you have an STD or if you our pregnant when they do the exam
They do not do AIDS test that I know of

Answer 2

It's really not that big of a deal. They will ask you some routine questions - such as when your last period was, are you sexually active, do you have pain anywhere... nothing too bad. They will do a breast examine to check for any lumps and then the pap test to look inside to see if everything is okay. The part that may be a bit uncomfortable is when they insert this q-tip looking thing to get a sample of the fluid inside your vagina. The easiest way to relax is just to tell yourself that every woman does this - and that the doctor does it numerous times a day/week. And I'm sure you don't personally know your doctor so there shouldn't be any reason to feel embarrased about anything - just think of the doctor as a friendly stranger so it doesn't matter what they think of you, but yet your comfortable enough to talk to the doctor and let the doctor examine you. You'll be fine and it will all be over before you know it!

Answer 3

Try to relax that is the best way to get through it. The first time is scary but the doctor knows this too. They, hopefully, will make it easier on you. They should tell you step by step what they are doing. They will ask you a few questions. Are you sexually active? Do you use protection? Have multiple partners? If you have unprotected sex they might test for stds. They may ask if you want them to check. Remember it is your body and you can say what you want done or not done. The will also do a pap smear, which should be done every year. Most of the questions that they ask are yes or no questions on paper before you go in for the exam. I think that makes it a little easier to be honest and not too embarrassed. Just remember, they do this everyday, it is normal and routine for them. Good Luck and relax.

Answer 4

nicely, 9 months from now, do you want to be taking good care of a new child infant? No? Then get an abortion! At 15, a infant won't make your existence greater handy. in actuality, it will make it a lot harder! So why no longer get an abortion? additionally, if your mom has criminal custody over you (i anticipate she does), she gets a say.