my wife is pregnant and if my dogs still hate kids she will have to have Abortion?

Question

My 2 Dogo Argentina's and are rescue dogs that were badly abused by children I even sold my house so they could live in the country with no children....We are going to a special dog training/evaluation class to see if they can soften up towards kids and they may not pass on the first day .is their a way to get my dogs to trust kids and understand that not all kids are monsters that will hurt them in less than a week if this class does not work
My wife and I agree that we will not have children until my dogs pass from old age .....But my wife told me she purposely stop taking her pill as a result she is pregnant and if my dogs can not overcome their trauma then we finally agreed abortion is the only answer.If the situation was reversed,The kid was scare of dogs would you adopt the dogs?No.
My Dogs are more innocent than any human who deserve to have a good life after being badly abuse ...It is only fair
AND PLEASE DO NOT SAY " HUMANS BETTER THAN DOGS "
that is empty and getting old

Answer 1

If you were so dead set against her getting pregnant why didn't you wear a condom, dumb azz. and I am not againse abortion ( and whoever wrote that is was a felony is wrong) but I am against your reasons for wanting her to have one. I think she, should just leave you.

Answer 2

It seems that your dogs are very precious. All life is precious. Is it possible to let your wife spare the life of your children by living elsewhere until the dogs can receive the guidance and training they need? Why can't you put the dogs up for adoption or put the child up for adoption when he or she is born. What would you do if she had the abortion and then they got hit by a car or died of worms next week? No evil eye here. I think your wife is getting sick of the dog obsession because if she took it seriously, she wouldn't have stopped taking the pill to purposely get pregnant. Can't you see she is trying to make you grow up or out of your obsession with the dogs. She wants you to choose her. She wants a life with you. She knows that children are what she prefers over dogs and she wants you to want the same thing. I think that if you don't want the same thing, this marriage needs a serious reevaluation. This marriage needs to end abortions start.

Answer 3

First of all, I'd like to say that the next time you post a question, could you at least TRY to make it understandable? Geez.

Ok, when it comes to abortions, I am pro-choice. Not because I think that abortions are right, but because in certain situations they're needed. Like if the woman was raped, or if the pregnancy puts her life in danger.

But to kill a human being to keep your dogs?? No offense against dogs, I mean, I love animals. They can be so cute and whatnot, but to kill a human being for them? That's a bit much.

I think that if you really love your dogs that much, and care for them more than you would another human being, you might as well chop off your 'baby maker.' That way, you can love and care for your dogs for ever and ever and not have to worry about children upsetting them!!

Please note the sarcasm.

Answer 4

You should have used a condom. And Let the dogs go if they dont pass that class. A babie is a real human life. You might as well get an abortion after thinking about this, you obviusly dont want a kid.

Answer 5

You are a ridiculous excuse for a human being. Get your priorities straight...animals are not equal to human beings. I guess it's easier to like animals who don't challenge you and have opinions of their own. It must be nice to surround yourself with "lapdogs" so to speak. Makes you feel like a big fish in a little pond, I guess.

If you hate people so much, then why haven't you offed yourself yet?

NoStereotyping: I find it interesting that you pretend to be "pro-choice" but only when you agree with the reasons for the choice. If you believe that people should have the right to make their own decisions, and that it is not for society to judge, then what right do you have to criticize this man's ridiculous reason for wanting to kill his unborn child?
Just wondering what your logic is on that...

Answer 6

obviously you recognize your first mistake. Being with a guy whose divorce isn't very last continues to be technically being with a married guy. on the grounds that your relationship all started secretly and with you having to be "hidden" that's probable that you'll have a tough time being "further out" in his existence. the incontrovertible actuality that he made you get an abortion proves how being concerned he become. All that aside, you knew going into it that there turned right into a danger that his kinfolk and children might want to reject you. that is continuously the case with adult males who've households earlier to assembly you even with if their divorce become finalized. you want to inform your husband what you're telling us. clarify to him that you agree for the incontrovertible actuality that he has children from his previous marriage, yet that you 2 are jointly now and that you've a son jointly and that showing favoritism to the different children isn't cool. tell him with the intention to be aside of the kinfolk that he's created with you, he ought to come across a fashion to combine you and your son extra into his existence consisting of his different children. they might compared to you, yet in case you get to spend sufficient time round you the would ultimately be able to tolerate you. that is a demanding difficulty although. various youngsters do not income from the recent spouse in any respect. You adult males would want to bypass to somewhat couples counseling to cope with this very muddled kinfolk tree. strong success.

Answer 7

get rid of the dogs.

you are cruel.you would kill your unborn baby just to keep some darn dogs.

your wife should just get rid of you.

Answer 8

uhhh how bout she gets rid of you AND the dogs and has her baby.......

Answer 9

abortion is a felony , so you have to find a solution yourself