This may sound silly,but ever since I sorted my life out and got a job,I keep looking down on people who are just like I was only a few weeks ago-lazy,fat and pathetic!Why can't I control my bad thoughts in this direction? Any advice as to why I find myself doing this?
2007-01-30 00:44:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I personally think it is fear, and your reaction to these people is a subconcious way of seperating yourself from what you once were!..
2007-02-02 23:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~So you're saying that if a person is fat, that automatically makes them lazy and pathetic? There are all sorts of reasons people are fat, and not just eating too much!
I hope this isn't a joke, it shouldn't be, you're talking about REAL people with REAL feelings. The very fact that you label them fat and pathetic means you feel no remorse.
Karma, get used to it. You're about to have some bad things happen to you, maybe that will help you "control" yourself?~
2007-01-30 00:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you everyone that is saying you are mean and cruel are beign un realistic if you were a complete **** you wouldnt have put this note on.
It is sometimes easier to look down on other people as it makes your own life seem a little easier, also sometimes it can be frustrating to see other people doing nothing when you are working hard.
I think the only way to deal with these feelings is to take a step back and realise that when you spend your time being judgemental your wasting your time, it wont get you anywhere and it is counterproductive!
It is hard though
2007-01-30 01:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by hopper13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an unfortunate side of human nature that we make ourselves feel better by looking down on others for whatever reason we can find.
There is a cure though...it is called maturity. As you get older you will hopefully learn how infinitely unimportant you are and that looking down on others serves absolutely no purpose whatsoever.
At this point you begin to acquire maturity. You learn that some of the small, tiny, teeny things we do actually have some importance and then you discover that others think the same and instead of looking down on people....you find that one or two...are actually looking up at you!!...There is a difference........
2007-01-30 00:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be you have mental health issues that need to be addressed.
Looking at your other comments and questions on here, it would suggest you are filled with a deeprooted biterness.
I would recommend seeking professional support.
it is not normal to live like this.
There is help out there if you ask for it.
This is a serious post.
You shouldnt be sat at your computer all day spilling vicious bile onto innocent people who you maybe secretly jealous of because they are happy with their lives.
Good luck I mean it. We all deserve to be happy . You too :)
2007-01-30 01:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Welsh Chick 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i can well understand why you are the man who walks alone, you must let me know how you manage to lose all that fat that you say you had only a few weeks ago. you obviously haven't sorted your life out yet if you laugh at those people less fortunate than you
2007-01-30 02:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you find the physical shape of another person laughable. But, I do know, you must have a very low self-esteem and problems dealing with the kind of person you are; or you would not need to find pleasure at other people's expense. If you know your attitude is wrong - change it.
2007-01-30 00:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by justchillin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You're a shallow, self-centered bigot. You can't denigrate blacks, Jews, women, gays or Latinos any more, so you choose to do it to the only group remaining that isn't covered under anti-discrimination statutes. You certainly have not "sorted out" your life just yet!
2007-01-30 00:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be empathic towards them as you said you were just like them. Why not try to help by giving advice on how you changed, but was your change for the better as you seem quite insensitive.
2007-01-30 08:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by mcspaner 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. i get this way to sometimes, i know its not right, but no matter what way i percieve things they all seem to be a cosmic joke. i was wondering one night, why i was watching people getting seriously injured on max-x one night, and laughing about it. besides the fact that it is marketed as humor, i came to the conclusion that as human beings, we like to see others fail because it makes our lives seem that much less catastrophic.
2007-01-30 00:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by alex l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you to make the new changes in your life required you to add more PAIN to your previous life in order for you to move toward what you consider a more PLEASUREABLE life. No respect for those that are sitting in their pain huh? Never mind, the disrespect will die off so don't feel too bad, enjoy your newly created life.
2007-01-30 00:57:21 · answer #11 · answered by MJR 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋