2007-01-30 00:39:30 · 11 answers · asked by tiger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i hope u now understood that ur best friend was not even ur good friend at all. had i been in ur shoes i would have dumped both my bf and best friend. since u ahdnt developed any bond with him, i dont think u should waste time pondering over it. he didnt deserve ur love, thats all. dont give away any idea that u r affected by the loss. are u sure that this guy had some liking for u? or is it that he was just friends with u but wanted to get close to ur friend?anyway, the truth is that ur hurt and u need to get over it. such things happen in life. as for ur friend, i thnik u should talk to her before doing anything. tell her how much hurt u are by her action. listen to what she has to say too.i know it sound terrible but u need to talk to her just for ur own sake. if u feel that ur freind has stabbed u from behind , u can end ur friendship. remember, life doesnt stop here. all the best to u
2007-01-30 02:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all this person you think is your best friend isn't your best friend at all. A real friend would never hurt you like that and certaintly wouldn't take an interest in your boyfriend. Second of all if the guy you were with just went for your friend then I say move on. It is obvious that neither of them are worth your time and you could do so much better. Good Luck!
2007-01-30 01:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If you didn't have a bond sounds like there was nothing to steal. Sounds more like you both went after the same guy and she won. Don't be jealous be happy for her.
2007-01-30 00:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend did this to you then she isn't your best friend or even just a friend because if she was then she would have never done so because she would have cared enough about you to not to. I would let her know how it made you feel to be treated that way, and let her know that you will always remeber this.
2007-01-30 00:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by windy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well:
1. dump yr bff
2. Don't fake it, act like yourself around him
3. You have loads of things special about you that make you different from any other gal, so show them
4. Don't bad mouth anyone
5. Enjoy life
2007-01-30 00:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by ~Pitbull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize that maybe you don't have a friend, and that there are plenty boys left. Move on, get strong, and take care of yourself first.
2007-01-30 00:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I just say move on because there wasn't any feelings so it will be good since there's no emotional tie so find you a new boyfriend
2007-01-30 00:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by kiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bestfriend isn't your bestfriend... My *bestfriend* did that to me so I let it go because I didn't feel that much for him yet but then she kept doing it to every guy I talked to so ditch her and him and move on!
2007-01-30 00:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new best friend!
2007-01-30 00:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you deal with it. men are not important, get over it. there are a thousand men like that.
2007-01-30 00:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Josee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋