Me and my husband have been together for five years and we have two beautiful kids. We love each other very much and we get along well, but the problem is that we cant get anywhere in life together. Were too wraped up in each other. We wake up and are so worried about spending time with the other that important stuff gets put to the side. What should we do?
2007-01-30 00:09:38 · 14 answers · asked by Krysta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you love each other, i wish that was me.
seriously!
Look at life fom a wider viewpoint, you got one shot at making life great, make sure its great for you. Dont let economics, the world affairs etc get in the way cos once its all over the money and the rest of the orld dont matter at all, what matters is that you loved someone and they loved you, you loved life together. njoy
x
2007-01-30 00:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this something you both want to work on or only you? If you can get both of you to wanna do those "important stuff", then it should be less troublesome.
When you have a mutual understanding you can sit down together and make plans etc.
Improve step by step. Perhaps first you need to agree on cutting down on some other activities for example. This also needs to be decided together.
Good luck
2007-01-30 08:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Half the resolution to any problem is recognizing it, which you have done. Try easing away gradually, setting a little less time each day with each other and a little more time doing the other things that need to get done. Then get together at the end of the3 day as a reward.
2007-01-30 08:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dealing with the important things first and making time for each other later. After your important things are taken care of you will have the rest of the time for each other. You have the rest of your lives together. Good Luck
2007-01-30 08:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is certainly a different problem. My suggestion is you do the "important stuff" together. You will be spending time together and still getting the work done, which should be more fun, since you will be doing it together. Good Luck.
2007-01-30 08:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Love my fiancee that much too, I think it's great after 5 years and 2 kids that you are still so much in love and hate to be apart.
I miss my fiancee when he goes to work..
But honestly a couple needs time to be apart ,if you spend to much time together, there may come a time when you two will grow tired of each other..
2007-01-30 08:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is important? As long as the bills get paid and the kids get fed, the most important thing should be your marriage!
You were married before the kids and for their sake the best thing you can do is be wrapped up in your spouse!
2007-01-30 08:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that you care so much about each other... If you are happy and your kids are happy and the basic bills are paid... I wouldn't worry about it... Life isn't "where you get" but how you get there. Trust in each other and the Lord and you will be fine.
2007-01-30 08:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by J-Rod on the Radio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need a little more info here. but your marriage should come first because in order to make your kids happy you need to be happy. money isn't that important unless your bills aren't being paid. as long as you have your necessities nothing else really matters.
2007-01-30 08:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too wrapped up in each other sounds like a cop out.
Do things TOGETHER.
2007-01-30 08:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋