Where at age 35 do you meet decent men, when you have a child?
2007-01-30 00:05:17 · 18 answers · asked by Sharky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-01-30 00:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Joe D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single moms are humans too and they can find love if they are not placing any limitations on themselves or are not bombarding themselves with negative and limiting believes.At the age of thirty five you can meet decent men almost everywhere. You set the pace for it and intend it with all your heart. We all want to meet people or form relasionship because we need love and you know, love is our birthright so without the limiting believes that men are bad or all decent men are married or have been shipped to mars, no matter what age one is, or a woman is , she can still find love and the man of her dreams even at the age of thirtyfive or hundred.
2007-01-30 00:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 35 years old, single mom for 11 years. Kids are currently 16 and 12 year old daughters. And............I'm engaged to a wonderful man who loves me, accepts my kids, loves my kids, is a great step-dad, and also has a child of his own that adores my kids also and all 3 of them continually bother us for a wedding date.
So, yes!!! Single moms at the age of 35 can find love with decent man. I'm living proof!!!
2007-01-30 00:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but take it from one who has re-married and is not happy. Really analyze what this man does for a living and how he keeps his home. I fell in love with a man who had just been divorced and had moved in with his Mom and Dad. DON'T DO THAT!!! I felt he just needed help with his kid. but, he is still a child and will not do anything for himself. I was also looking for someone who had a child already, big mistake. I have not bonded with this child and I doubt I ever will. He is like a guest in our home and my kids have to pu up with it. I think it would have been better if he had no children. But, just take oyur time and look at the big picture, don't think you have to settle because you are a single Mom.
2007-01-30 00:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A place like Chucky Cheese is amazing to meet other single parents. That is where they hang out on the weekends. Any activity that involves you and your child can be good - like parks and malls. It is tough, but I met my husband at work and I had a 4 year old and a 4 week old - don't give up!
2007-01-30 00:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kitt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by rensing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can
i was alone for 7 yrs before i met mr right
just remember you are a package deal your child is part of you
if the man does not get this too bad
also if your child is older make sure you talk to them about the one you find make sure everyone is comfortable
i was not looking for mr right he just popped up
2007-01-30 00:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will come when you stop looking for him.But when you see some one who catches your eye, turn on the flirt and the Bull $#!* detector. Also tell them right off the bat that you have a child!!! : ) good luck.
2007-01-30 00:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Linds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I am proof of that, I was alone with two children and really thought that I would never have anyone to love me and for me to love, I had resigned myself that I was going to bring up my children on my own. It happened when I was not looking for anyone. Once my children were at school i joined a gym and met my man there. You go for it girl and enjoy x
2007-01-30 00:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by pringles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the same place as dad`s who have kids to.you don`t! but i try and go out shopping that is where I find single moms.I used to hate shopping but now its fun.woman come over to me and help me with the shopping.it`s so cool.
2007-01-30 00:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an older man with the stability and resources to properly take care of you and your child.
2007-01-30 00:10:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋