my fiance wont tell his mum or his family that we are engaged and he always hides me from all his mates i am now living with him and his family, he never goes anywhere public with me and he hides his phone when he goes to bed and during the day and has it on vibrate.he also tells me that he doesnt work for the people that he used to but he wears there uniform and hides it in the morning by putting a dressing gown over it.people say speak to him about it but he is a really good lyer, some people say break up with him but i dont want to i love him too much.
2007-01-30 00:03:51 · 4 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From what you describe in your question he sounds dangerous, and almost like he has kidnapped you. I realize that is probably not the case, but anyway I look at it, this is not a healthy relationship.
People who are engaged to be married include their future spouse in family events and introduce them to their friends. Honestly, it sounds like he is willing to live with you as long as you pay your share of the rent and provide him easy sex while he goes out looking for women suitable to marry.
As for the the whole work thing and uniform, he sounds creepy, a liar, and someone who I wouldn't trust, let alone marry and spend the rest of my life with. Get away from him!
2007-01-30 11:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you can't even speak to him about it because he'll probably lie very well...
Don't marry him!
A partner is someone you should be able to rely on. Imagine a lifetime of trying to make things work with a man who is very sneaky, a lyer, and who it's pointless to discuss things with because you can't trust what comes out of his mouth.
Can you think of one acceptable reason for his hiding you when you're about to become family?
2007-01-30 11:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Christyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry someone you can't trust... hate to say this... but he may be married/seeing someone already... confront him and demand that he come clean.
2007-01-30 09:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by brookeems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he isnt ready for a committment and maybe you need to reevaluate the relationship
2007-01-30 08:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋