2007-01-29 23:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by caramel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well the best way to deal is be positive ,stop urself falling into depression for a moroon and live life happily as its not at this moment of time.But when many have done and proved so will you when your over it.Take up a part time join,join som eleisure classes and courses and look after ur child well.
Support urself and the world will support you.
Good luck.
2007-01-29 23:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your top priority should be your child's best interests at this time. Concentrate on making the best decisions for the little person you have, and keep yourself busy. Join a group that does things you're interested in, or that can offer support for your situation. Don't rely on anyone else to complete you or make you happy. You must learn to be your best for you, before being able to be anyone else's main concern. (except your child)
2007-01-30 07:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by michellemcdougall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you learn to accept the smaller family life and remember the reasons he left. Go after the child support. Pick up your life pieces and take a positive step every day toward normal living...
2007-01-30 07:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear about what happened to you but I'm going trought the same thing right now My daughters and I lived with this guy for 3 yrs and now I through him out because he started drinking to much to often and it is hard but I try to focuse on my girls and my job it helps but there are moments that it hurts. If you need some who can realte e-mail me and we'll talk maybe it will make things a little better for the both of us
2007-01-30 08:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Forsaken Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you have to know and understand that things like that happen, and maybe it may be you walking out that door. So know that as a woman and for your child, cause one day, I hate to say, but they will be in your shoes and you have to show them that they must be strong. When a man know that you are a strong woman, if you decide to let him back in your life they have to know that he have to come with a lot of respect. Show him how strong you are. How you can make it without him cause life is short and it is all about you and your children.
2007-01-30 07:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. I think the best way to deal with it is to focus on you and your child, your world, her development. And resolve never ever ever again to bring a person to live in your house with your child until you are married to them. It greatly reduces the odds of your child suffering like they are now suffering.
2007-01-30 07:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you just deal with things as best you can, with support from family and friends. You just have to become independent. Next time, wait for marriage and a commitment, eh?
2007-01-30 07:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to move on and make a life for yourself without this person and explain to your child that you can no longer live with this person as they made their decision to move out . That you and he or she were no longer happy together . Believe me in time it will get better and you will find a better person to be with. good luck.
2007-01-30 08:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to admit to yourself that he never made a commitment, so you should not be all that surprised. Next time wait for the ring on the finger and a marriage license.
2007-01-30 07:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can do two things. One you can sit around and cry and feel sorry for yourself, or You can move on with your life and be successful. I highly recommend the latter.
2007-01-30 08:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋