i am having two groups in my college both these groups are very good friends of me but i spend more time with other group as i feel comfortable with them but the group with which i spend less time they dont like this they feel like i am using them please help me out because i am very upset??
2007-01-29 23:40:05 · 10 answers · asked by neha k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never, EVER, worry about what somebody else thinks about you. If you dwell upon this sort of concern then eventually you will get to the point where you will be paralyzed with fear by worry about what somebody else might think.
Do you think George Bush worries what the American people think? No.
Do you think George Bush worries what the members of Congress think? No.
Do you think George Bush worries what the rest of the world thinks? No.
Why should you worry about what this so-called "group" of no-accounts thinks?
2007-01-29 23:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do they think you are using them? Do you only hang out with them when the others aren't available? You sometimes have to look at things from the others person's perspective and think about how you would feel if someone did it to you, you might not realize that you are doing something offensive.
You have the right to hang around anyone you want, if you like one group better then I would hang with them exclusively, the other group sounds immature which is why you might not like hanging with them. Just consider both sides before making a decision, maybe you can talk to group 2 and let them know that you like hanging with them but want to extend your universe and shouldn't have to choose between two of them.
If they insist you do I guess they made the choice for you, move on.
2007-01-30 07:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get both groups together so they could all become friends too. This way both groups could feel like you are there for them.
2007-01-30 09:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters what do they feel your using them for? and why do u feel more comfortable around the one group and not the other? i think these are things you need to think about. maybe the group that feels this way are not really good friends after all.
2007-01-30 07:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by kute_regina_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you r alowed to have more than one gruop of friends just think...if ur friends think you are using them...then they arent really your friends. So just move on and try to get ver the fact that they arent real friends. And you'll feal better knowing you were the bigger and better person in the situation.
2007-01-30 07:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they think so then believe me they are not ur good friends.U r free to choose the friends u like.Dont feel upset
2007-01-30 07:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love All, Serve All"
So say Bhagavan Sri Sathya Sai Baba
luv and SAI RAM..
2007-01-30 07:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Indrajith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
define use, as in for money, free rent or something, or just temp friends. Just bring something to the table
2007-01-30 07:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down
2007-01-30 07:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by van hastling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY DON'T HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
THEY HATE YOU BECAUSE THEIR BOYFRIEND
THINKS YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
2007-01-30 07:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by v_adaniya2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋