I've apologized until I was blue in the face. (And I am dark chocolate like they like it). I've done the make up stuff, dinner, movies and even tried to make some lovin, but she's not having that at this time. I given her space when she's asked for it. I've cut off my other associates. How long do i take these little bullshi* tests of hers?
I want to marry my child's mom and she knows it I made a mistake, not that cruical, for the stuff she's taking me through but i'm hanging in there thought, but she is hedging me big time. I want to stick in there and i'm trying to wait her out but, damn! At times she starting to make me rethink about my quest of making the family a union.
I really don't want a "babymomma". I believe i've been extra patient, while she's going through her "time"(in getting over from being mad at me stage) for the things that i've done to upset her, but, hey how much of this bull**** tests of hers am i suppose to take?
Sigbee, trying to marry?
2007-01-29 23:20:48 · 3 answers · asked by Sigbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You really did not say what you did that you had to
apologize SO much . Evidently you hurt her a lot and
for some women it takes a long time to get over it. Now
you are the one that will have to be patience and give
her the space needed for her to think and eventually she
will accept you if you show her you are the one for her
even though you hurt her before: Yes you can't wait for-
ever but you do have to give it time.
2007-01-30 14:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and discuss this! Ask her what you need to do to resolve this issue for good. Explain that you are not willing to be drug over the coals forever for this same offense. It's time to clear the air and move forward in your relationship.
2007-01-30 06:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Harley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she don't want to marry you and thats her way of showing you
2007-02-02 08:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋