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last week, i met a guy in a bar. he asked for my cell number. I am sure that he likes me much. On the next day, he sent me sms to ask me go out for a drink with him. But i couldnt go since i was busy.
i am thinking of going out with him next week. what should i do
- send him sms
- call him
- wait for his invitation
I am confused whether he is serious or not. How to know it?

2007-01-29 22:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by coconut12 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

11 answers

call him

2007-01-29 22:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by ntu 4 · 0 0

Hi lady, I am a guy also, u didn't went with him cuz u were busy .. but u wanted to go.. now that girls always show some distance (although I don't know why) so be natural and just miss-call him, I am sure he will call you back in no time.. we poor guys are hungry for love & tenderness from women. so play your game and say sorry for not coming and he will himself reschedule the date unless otherwise he has a lots of girls around him and he is like a sex-god or something.. so have fun and enjoy your feminism..

2007-01-29 23:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Since he issued the first invititation, why don't you ask him to meet you somewhere for lunch, dinner, drinks, or coffee or some such? He extended an offer and may think he was rebuffed, so if you ask him out, it will assure him that you are attracted and interested. Please, though, be careful about meeting up with people you don't know very well or at all. Remember, public places the first few times until you are comfortable with someone. Best of luck!

2007-01-29 22:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by telaine 3 · 0 0

Sms him,its the "in"thing today to ask someone out.There is no harm in inviting him out since you turned him down the first time.You will know later when you have this so called"date"if he is serious with you or not.

2007-01-29 23:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by becauseofyou a 1 · 0 0

It quite does no longer sound like he's being very being concerned or delicate to you in any respect! in actuality, it seems he is going out of his thank you to make you sense this depressing, yet i won't have the ability to truly tell if it is so or no longer. in case you sense this way and have tried to chat to him approximately it, does he seem to no longer comprehend or understand what you're asserting? Does he make excuses or blame you? Or is he only detached? i'm questioning you're able to desire to have tried to chat to him approximately your thoughts on the way he's treating you and neglecting you? you ought to continually attempt the counseling direction if he's prepared to bypass. in case you sense this depressed, in line with threat you're able to additionally think of roughly going to the standard practitioner and being regarded at and probably getting on anti-depressants. you're able to earnings from some scientific care or counseling, too, on your melancholy. I lived with a mentally and emotionally abusive guy for years so i will empathize with what your dealing with. i ended up submitting for divorce because of the fact I felt I had no different strategies. that's a very hard ingredient to bypass via and something you will could p.c. for your self, yet i would be questioning of you and want each and every thing gets greater valuable for you. My divorce is being finalized good now so i'm quite a lot an emotional destroy good now. now and lower back that's hard to renowned that's worse, staying and save attempting or ultimately giving up and attempting to maintain your self. Take care!

2016-11-23 13:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You can meet him,but I highly advise that you take a good friend along.

2007-01-29 22:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0 0

Be Careful~

2007-01-29 22:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Piggy'sGua 1 · 0 0

please save yourself some serious trouble and dont reply to him .peolpe are hard to tell after years o fknowing them, but i am sure he likes you very much because you know him for a few hours.!!

2007-01-29 23:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

call him thats the best thing to do so you can here his sweet voice again GO GIRL !!!!!!!!!1

2007-01-29 23:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Call him and talk to him.You will know.

2007-01-29 22:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0 0

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