my ex and i have been broken up for 10 months recently he has been calling me everyday at work sometimes 2 times a day and then i asked him if he wanted to go to the movies and then he kept making excuses. i told him i dont have time for a phone relationship and i havent heard from him for a week. he left me and i still love him. why is he calling all the time then? why is he doing this? he is getting jelous and asking where i have been who im with and what i have been doing. what is with this?? should i send him an sms and tell him i miss him?
what should i say to him? and how do i say it?
2007-01-29 22:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for me,you ask him what he really wants.why he always call you but a lot of times you invited him he has many excuses.tell him that you're confuse.dont open up that you still like him because he would think that you're pushing yourself to him.that's my own opinion but it's up to you....
2007-02-02 21:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by misia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's just trying to make sure he still has you should he need someone. He doesn't want you to go on with your life but yet he seems to be doing what he wants with his life. I'd just put a end to it once and for all and ignore his calls and get on with you life. Life goes by so quickly so why waste it on a guy who doesn't seem to know what he really wants. good luck ;o)
2007-01-30 06:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its his way of saying i wanna be friends with you nothing more, if he doesn't wanna go to the movies and you have not heard from him for a while maybe this is a hint to you to move on with your life cause maybe he has, sending him a sms might cause trouble he might think your hounding him, leave him to make the move if hes going to in his own time maybe he needs to think about it
x
2007-01-30 07:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to dinner/ lunch and talk to him. You should try to learn why he had been making excuses. Many times guys are not comfortable in a particular situation, like I will not be comfortable if my girl friend dropped in unannounced at home. So talk it out
2007-01-30 06:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,take a wild action & fix him a dinner then ask him honestly about his true feeling.
gotta tell ya , I have a feeling that he wants you back too , but he can`t say it straight!
2007-01-30 07:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he just wants a fix!
2007-01-30 07:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋