I have to work on my other half's birthday in March and so I was thinking of doing something special for him. My plan was to send him and a couple of his friends to a strip club for the night. Do you think this will be like giving him the green light to do something silly or do you think he'll see it as it is.....just a birthday present???
2007-01-29 22:23:59 · 30 answers · asked by dnbgrrly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how on earth did u translate my question into anything slightly relating to my father.......???
2007-01-29 22:31:37 · update #1
Sigh....... WHY would you send your man to a strip club? That is definitely giving him the green light. Send him to a concert instead.
2007-01-29 22:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think that depends on they type of man your other half is hun!!!
If he's a typical jack the lad then he may read into it that its ok to go off and do something silly - but if hes just a typical guy Im sure he'll accept it for what it is - a cool birthday present!
xx
2007-01-30 07:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would personally see it as a birthday present, but to be fair. If it was me I would prefer the idea of a strip club with my other half being the stripper if you get me. I can see how someone might abuse the trust though. It all depends on how much trust is in the relationship
2007-01-30 06:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Silent_Hunter 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I reckon you should go to the strip club, see what they do and do a strip for him the morning after when you're not working. Then it can finish the right way. He'd really enjoy that, I'm sure.
2007-01-30 06:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sure it would be fine,give the club an extra 100 bucks to have a couple of girls take him on stage and whip him in front of the crowd and the girl can whisper to him this is nothing compared to what you'll get at home if you screw up tonight LOL
2007-01-30 06:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by JOHN D 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i don't know personally but i would suspect that the combination of booze and for the most part naked females might have an undesired effect if he is approached by another woman.
the question remains as to where u will be during the course of all this? If I were ur b/f i would want to be with u, not a load of strippers.
i would have thought kissagrams might be a lot safer and more funny too, depending on the circumstances. or even funnier, if u r out for a meal, say a curry and a policewoman turns up??.........
thank you.
2007-01-30 06:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Honey, as understanding or open-minded you want to be, do remember that this may be a 'gateway' for him to continue patronising strip joints. There are many other special things you can give him. Like, baking him a cake or writing him a poem or videotape yourself stripping for him ;) Save yourself from the possible repercussions.
2007-01-30 06:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are sending him to strip club, you should come with him. Otherwise, why don't you give him a private personalized strip as a present?
2007-01-30 06:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you tell him that you have planned this, tell him it's not permission to get funny with these girls. Also, you obviously trust your man enough to do this for him in the first place, so what are you worried about?I am sure him and his friends will love it and most guys would stand in line to be with a girl that has so much confidence in her relationship to do something as spontaneous as this.
2007-01-30 06:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jade22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no don't do that.
I trust my boyfriend with all my heart yet I still wouldn't be comfortable with some hussy sliding all over him.
If you do decide to, just make sure you can trust him otherwise you'll be out of your mind sick by the time he comes home. Or go with him, as others have suggested. Probably the wisest idea.
He may prefer you being his stripper if you see what I mean....?
2007-01-30 08:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋