My husband plays on pokerstars and he offered this woman whom he often plays with some of his chips. He even emailed her to let her know she could have a few of his. He even has her poker name listed on his player list. Last night my eblaster retrieved an email she sent to him and she turned the favor of the chips down. However in the email she asked him, if he was still glowing. Why would he be glowing if he is jusy playing poker with her and other people ? My eblaster has also retrieved their chats on pokerstars and there isn't any chats that seem to be out of the ordinary. I realize I don't know much about poker lingo. If anyone would like to share their opinions, please do so. I have been married to my husband for 20 years and the thought of some strange,lonely woman invading my marriage concerns me deeply,or could I be way over the top on this. I have invested a lot in this relationship,plus a beautiful daughter to think about. Is he glowing over the poker or her ?
2007-01-29 21:51:50 · 10 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are paranoid. You are a typical woman and you tend to over-analyze everything. When he is glowing, he is doing well in poker. How the hell else would someone know whether he was physically glowing?!?!? It's not online video phone poker. It's just online poker. It's poker. Stop being such a pathetic woman. If you are worried about your relationship with your husband, try to do more for him. Cater to his needs. Pay attention to what he says. Pay attention to what he does. If he is happy with you, he will not go anywhere else. On the other hand, if you have let yourself go, and you are always bi*tching and nagging like most women do, then you are in trouble. You need to change your ways and start treating him like he deserves to be treated.
2007-01-29 22:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I'm not sure what "glowing" means in relation to poker unless that means he had a stupendous run of luck. But I do feel your reaction and concern seem a bit over the top.
You retrieved e-mails which you said were not out of th ordinary, yet you focus on this one term--"glowing" as the source of your concern and insecurity. She also turned down what seems to be an innocent offer of chips.
My gosh, it's an internet poker game for chrissakes! Unless technology has advanced to the point where they can "do the nasty" through the monitor, I am not sure what you are so worked up about? You'v worked yourself up into a lather, and my sense is that this irrational preoccupatioin is going to be the source that will really screw up your relationship.
2007-01-29 22:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like that they are chatting and maybe he didn't tell her he was married, and since he changed his password means he is talking to her in ways he probably shouldn't maybe you should set up an account under a different name your husband won't know and find this woman and talk to her see what she knows. OR DOESN'T, I have had to do that with my ex more than once it was pretty entertaining what he was telling these woman online.. Also ask your husband if he minds you sitting down with him and watching him play. See what is reaction is, if he gets defensive and asks why you want to watch then he is up to something. Good Luck
2016-03-29 09:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's found a friend who shares a common interest with. I don't think spying on him is a good idea you might not like what you find. Try asking him to show you how to play poker. Become interested in some of his hobbies and try to spend more time with him doing things he likes to do. If there's nothing sexual going on between him and this woman don't worry about it.
2007-01-29 22:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's something going on, they r just poker buddies...glowing is said when someone is happy...like happy coz they won
The woman's intention are good coz she refused your husband's advances for more chips.
PS: what is eblaster? and how can i get one?
2007-01-29 22:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have an eBlaster on your computer??? WHY?? You've been married 20 years and you don't trust your husband? He's not done anything wrong. Give it a rest hun before you push him TO do something.
2007-01-29 21:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by K.W. 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
all this means is that he is winning and she is losing to him,its like wow you are ( sharp) or glowing in the poker world...Nothing to worry about .....you can plainly see she is losing and by him offering some of his chips its like hes saying "hey i can loan you some.....its sorta like a put down to her cause hes winning (glowing) no biggey...Its not a flirt by no means...Relax
2007-01-29 22:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe he is glowing over her its new and exciting when u have been with someone for so long u no them well and someone else comes along its interesting and the feel needed not saying ur not showing enough attention its just common human behaiour good luck my thoughts are with u
2007-01-29 21:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by bigbreastedbitch1979 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it's time you joined his poker circle.
2007-01-29 21:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by irmaynerds 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is totally cheating on you. i bet he sneaks of at night and he plays strip poker with her. come on lady! your nuts! i don't see how he would want to live with someone that is spying on him. get a life. i bet your spying in him because you are the one that cheated and can't trust yourself. not everyone is a cheat like you.
2007-01-29 22:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋