why Marriage becoming One's REAL SELF?

Question

WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT IT...
EXPLAIN WELL. THANK YOU

Answer 1

One would do better to be ones self BEFORE marriage.

Answer 2

Because it's real life. And how does a woman, planning to get married, know she will be happy with the man she chose to marry? The heart is the measure. I could say I could only have life in its real sense, if I've got the love alive in my heart. The heart is the source of faith, gentleness, honesty, sincerity, fidelity. While the mind thinks of business and work, the heart, in a relationship, makes the real home.

It is where one could actualize its idea of her self-image, the essence of a woman. How to keep the relationship alive and going, tending beloved children, doing household chores, with grace and dignity and poise, in order to stay sexy and attractive to the man you chose to marry....

It is understanding his work and supporting him, especially during hectic and pressuring times..... to give him your trust and fidelity, by not having illicit affairs with any other man.....

Supposedly, marriage is the summary of a first@true love, if only no tragedies have come one's life, impairing the life, dreams, and future of an Angel..... wounding the memory, a stinging pain in the heart, and the sharp, bitter pain still freshly felt at hearth's core, one could not get a complete 360 turn, because it's only 10 degrees allowable surface, because surpassing that degree would mean a rush to the hospital, due to fainting caused by too much pin-pain, even when there's anaesthesia and sleeping drugs. What a tragedy, a belated gift to a husband, stale and stolen, by the ugly faces savages of time. It hurts so much one could faint, remembering what no future lies ahead. No Rx meds could hope to cure..... Maybe, only those beautiful fingers of time, that could make a cozy comfy within its folded arms, near his heart wearing the colors of her flag could help.....

It is real life, because adult maturity, capability and capacity is tested there, because one dances with a pair. Sometimes, the partner falls short of the dance movements that one expects, so it needs for the wife to be able to find appropriate reso to be able to hold him back and not let him fall to the ground arena of snow, in case of ice skating. Or even in tango, one has had those not-too-lose grips, so that he won't slip, and meet accident, by falling...

Though marriage could be a consensual partnership of a lifetime, yet, I think the woman has to do some extra effort, to keep and hold the relationship. It's how she deals with her husband and understands him in his most unique ways and inborn talents and classy tastes and styles, that one must gracefully live up to. But I think, the best pair is something that your likes and inclinations are almost the same. In some cases, it will be complimentary. There are a few x-factors and magic and secrets to this how to hold him, I think, but it's only a "For Our Eyes Only" affair, like a copyright patent.

It's also a kind of real life stageplay roleplaying, mostly without rehearsals, but picked instantaneously, sometimes, simultaneously, so it's how a woman copes, in good and honest means that counts. I think the man of essence is the man who understands her unmeant failures and the tragedies that caused it so, and looks at her inborn capacity and ability to love, truly greatly, with a first love ending to be true.

So that he offers her the protection more than what she needs,and says to her, he's just around always ready to cuddle her safe within the cozy comfy of his arms near his heart.

It's still even more. Because marriage is a journey, a very long one, like sailing across the sea to reach the home at the end of the horizon, so that your children say "Oh, it's a long way home!" and you answer, "Indeed!".

Silver Star so Bright, do you agree and see the same things as my star-streaked eyes see? 'Wish it is so?