Why do I attract manwh....? (dont like that word)
It just always happens that way, I am not even close to easy and i don't fall in love easy and i do not fall for "the usual crap". I don'tdress trashy or anything and I'm confident. I also do not tolerate cheating so I don't know why this is. These guys are very sweet, because they know how to be, but always seem to have a past. Very, very, charming. I wanted a "good boy" or whetever you want to call them, but they never come to me! Do you think some people just attract certain people because that is what fits them?
i have no sort of reputation, never had sex and they say you are what you attract, but i don't see the connection here?
2007-01-29 20:41:51 · 4 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
You're not very specific--but I was able to pick up one (maybe two) tings. You say these guys "always have a past," but are very charming. Here's thing #1: if the contents (the past) don't match the packaging (being charming)--run, do not walk, to the nearest exit. There are exceptions--look at what is going on in the guy's life NOW--facts, not what he's "going to do" --people do make mistakes and learn from them--sometimes. Point being--look for substance, not superfcialities.
Second, it's clear you are acting "like a lady" to use the old-fashioned term--which is fine. Men are interested in women who act trashy for only one thing. But (like I said, you didn't give many specifics, so I'm guessing to some degree) that does not mean you are effectively presenting yourself. You may want to get together with one or more trusted friends and rework your image. Finally--one mistake many women--and men--make is loking in the wrong places. Here's an extreme example to make the point--you won't meet any men you'd want to date in a strip club! The point is--if you want to meet men with certain characeteristics, think about where that type of man is likely to spend his time. Then go to those places.
Good luck!
2007-01-30 05:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you are what you attract. You should also realize that everyone has a past.
But really, I don't know what to tell you except God bless you in finding a good man!
2007-01-30 06:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the pink hair
2007-01-31 01:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by toofdogger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋