I am 12 years old and i am pregnant. i just took a pregnacy test. The problem is that i dont even know who is the father's child becuase i have sex with 4 different guys before and i havent finish my middle school yet.
2007-01-29 20:30:41 · 21 answers · asked by natalie j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
try to talk to the 4 guys who u have sex with and discuss with them who is the dad
2007-01-29 23:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a problem. I would either stop having sex because 12 years old is really young to be having sex or if you have to, go on birth control and have the guys your with wear a condom. You need to tell your mom that your pregnant. yeah you might be scared but you need to tell you mom or someone that you trust because this is a big deal and if you decide to have this baby it will change your whole life. a baby is hard work to take care of. you cant keep this a secret that will make everything worse. you can do it! have faith, everything will turn out alright! Good luck
2007-01-30 04:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Womanhood happens as soon as you get your period.
I suggest you write the names of these guys down in your journal and see your mother and try to get abortion to clean out.
I feel the first time was a mistake because you are young and not responsible for your actions and the men you slept with need be young I hope if not you got grounds for snatchatory rape or cause to get claims for your child if you decide to keep it.
You must act now to get cleaned out.
You need to take time to talk to your Mom as she may go softer than your Dad but you must tell your parents
Loss of a child is hard but loss of your childhood is harder...
You can not take adult problems on when your are financially unready and did not think clearly... You cant support yourself
You did have adult feelings but the guy is equally the blame too for not geting condoms or protection...Cat is out of the bag and will be in a few months showing...Proof....Act Now and tell them the main names of who the fathers are...Every one will be shocked at first but you are going to cry even more when the baby comes out like a CHoo CHoo train and hurt you even more...
2007-01-30 04:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad asking this because it's such a serious and bad situation, but ARE YOU SERIOUS? If that's the case, you shouldn't be on here, but instead talking to someone you trust and can confide in and can actually help you. But since you asked, u got a SERIOUS problem on your hands. I'm sorry, but for the first time on here.. i don't know what to say. Just pray to God for guidance and strength and hope that whatever decisions made and whatever happens is for the best. Good luck.
2007-01-30 04:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by mommy.luv.jordyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously??? Well, First, discuss with your parents or guidance from school. If you are afraid of your parents knowing it, you first discuss with your guidance and let him/her talk to your parents. Whether to keep the baby or not is your parents decision mostly but you will have to decide and tell them about what you think. for the father of the baby, DNA is there for you to prove. However, if you have had the sex with the same age or school age kid, don't expect him to have responsible for your baby if you are keeping the baby. You have to rely on your parents instead of you relying on your partner. whether you and your family decide to keep the child or not, in the future, do not let this happen again,because not only you can be pregnant, but also you can get STDs. Don't be afriad to let your parents and guidence know about this problem. you have to face it anyway. Don't try to hide from them and don't try unsafe abortions. They may hurt your body as well.
2007-01-30 05:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean, you had sex with 4 diff. guys in one night? If that is the case, then it's a big problem! If not, I mean, you had sex within days-interval, then it is possible to know who the father is. Try to determine the father by means of looking at the difference of your regular monthly period to your last. Look at the days interval and the father of that baby is the one who you had sex with nearest to the day interval of your last period.
If you already have a period, that is... If you still don't have then it's impossible for you to get preggy...
If worse came to worse, then, there is always a DNA test...
Good luck!!!
2007-01-30 04:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by rhea_may 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have 3 options
keep the baby
terminate the pregnancy
adopt the baby out when it is born
Only you can make that decision. Knowing who the father is will not change your options & being 12yo i doubt your ability to mother a child when you are one yourself. My daughter is your age. I have chosen to take this question seriously as i find it hard to believe.
2007-01-30 04:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mishell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious and you are pregnant you need to get some help. You can call planned parenthood and they will help you. The faster you get help the easier it will be for you. It is free. They will help you decide what is best for you and what you want.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ Here is the website. Go to it now and feel better about your situation.
2007-01-30 04:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mother_Darling 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone right away, someone you can trust, preferably your Mom and Dad. Don't wait. This is really serious, the life of a helpless baby is at stake here. You need to have some help with this.
2007-01-30 04:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart go and tell your mum and dad. I know it will be scary, but they will help you after they calm down. And next time you do have sex use some sort of protection please.
I really hope everything goes well for you, just tell mum and dad
2007-01-30 05:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋