Do any of you ladies have a husband with a low sex drive and if so has it hurt ur marriage
2007-01-29 20:22:08 · 11 answers · asked by lauren l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes and yes.
I love my husband more than anything but over the last couple of years he has put on some weight and his sex drive has suffered.
We fight about it all the time and it is frustrating.
We are currently in marriage counseling and things are going OK, but it is still very upsetting sometimes.
2007-01-29 20:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should ask that question. I was dealin with the same thing not so long ago.You don't say how long you have been married for. My problem was the seven year itch. It was killing us, so I took the first step. When he finished work on Friday night, and it was the late shift, I had a candle light dinner ready, (kids were not home, of course), I ran nice bubble bath for him and washd him. In other words I pampered him for a change. It worked wonders. Men need to know they are needed and loved too. We are always expecting them to do these things, but it works both ways. Then dinner, soft relaxing music, don't forget he has been working all week. And after maybe a sexy massage,with oils. Let him know you love him and appreciate him. Sometimes words are not enough.If you love him show him and pamper him. We expect it all the time. What about him. I would be very interested to know how things work out. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-29 20:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby has got a very high sex drive, but I have a friend that with the same problem and she cheets on him! I know this is not the answer you were looking for but she tried everything to get him excited but nothing. She has got a cupboard full of sex toys, but still cheats on him.
2007-01-29 20:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite the opposite! my sex drive is history!!! if i cant get the respect and love and attention i feel i deserve, he dont deserve that either. his lack of communication and unwillingness to meet me half way is hurting us, but he dont see it that way... he will probably learn when it's too late. he is stubborn and wont listen when i give him things to make it better for me... it has no relevance i guess. if he gets what he wants and needs everything is good...in his book! and i know the guys gonna say i ask for too much...wrong! i get a phone card once a month and a $15 carton of smokes a week... everything else is needs like a roof over my head, gas lights water heat food. nothing else...very far and few in between but apparently it's too much for him to handle... it could be alot worse. any girl will tell you that. and mainly all i ask for is quality time. he spends it on his pc and on his phone...but he loves me... stick in there sounds like it is a minor problem that will fix itself in time. ask if you did something wrong.
2007-01-29 20:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mashallah sister that youre keen to enable your husband marry a 2d spouse. The Jealousy emotion will continually be organic to a girl :), make du'a and Inshallah Allah swt will make it much less perplexing for you. you have this kind of vast advantages for this sacrafice, i think of the only element to help you 'pull by way of' is to get closer to Allah swt and you gets a bond between you and your Rabb,. yet additionally you could purely clarify on your husband that clearly as a woman i'm going to be jealous, and that i might like it in case you be useful to me as quickly as I surely have the jealousy ranges. ( in line with danger your husband can remind you of the advantages you get and how delighted Allah swt is with you, which that would desire to easily make you sense extra appropriate) Inshallah be reliable, continually remember Allah swt and you'd be reliable. i'm going to make du'a for you
2016-11-01 21:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-29 20:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by suresh b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about sex drive in mind only? due to my husbs health problems he is unable to period. I just try to support him for it is really bothering him a lot. I work long hours and keep busy and I just take it as one of life's deals they handed us.
Maybe its because I am a bit older so it doesn't bother me as much as one much younger, but you have other means.
2007-01-30 00:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low sex dive What is that' Enjoy it well it there .I have the same problem with my husband . I like my freedon I go and come as I please. But I alway have dinner on the table.
2007-01-29 21:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Susan A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear , i am one of them,and it sure affected my marriage big time,he masturbates a lot and he watches porn, we just do it once a week and this drives me crazy!!
2007-01-29 20:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are still young... maybe i will expierence in the future... i think i will get very mood out and fight will occur... So i will heed the Dr!
2007-01-29 20:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋