I never felt he wants my friendship.
But he showed his interest in hanging out with me or coming over.
Well, I told him it is early cause we are not close friends.
After 2 weeks he called and asked me if I want to be his girlfriend.
Is it a true feeling?!!!
How I should deal with him he wants to see me this week
2007-01-29 19:43:48 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Wow! He's really rushing things. I'd keep a close eye on him ifI were you. Before proposing to you, he should prove himself first. But, before asking a very serious question like that he should consider first a good friendship. Hey, you did say that you never felt he wants your friendship right? Be careful.
2007-01-30 02:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Itachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little immature the way he is rushing. I say no to being his girlfriend right away and just go on a couple regular dates and see how it turns out... don't jump to conclusions. You may be married in a few years or you might escape thru the bathroom window on your first date, but give it a try.
2007-01-29 19:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Unemployed MBA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot. Hang out with him & learn as much as you can about him b4 you start going out though. If he wants to see you this week, go ahead with that. You might want to stay away from going to the cinema as it reduces the chances to get to know each other. But you can go for coffee, bowling etc which would give you an opportunity to get to know each other better.
2007-01-29 21:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like her either wants a relationship or to get lucky.
He obviously doesn't want a friendship.
From what you said, it is very obvious that he is very aggressive, and he will push hard for whatever he wants; probably sex.
You must decide if this is what you want. If you let in a person like him, you won't be able to get him out without getting hurt or worse.
2007-01-29 21:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its like this...from my point of view i think he wants to play you, but i only know what you are telling me. there might be much more to it. like his expressions, his behaviour etc. its really hard to say.
i would suggest you give him a chance, but follow your instinct. if you are worried about it that much, you should ask him for some time and think about it.
maybe you should tell him about your fears and suggest that you guys become friends first. have some fun together. after you get to know him better your the answer will just pop up.
take care
2007-01-29 19:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by BigBear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try it out for maybe a week or so,see if he really means it. Tell him about how you feel about your doubts. Ask yourself: Do you like him? Follow your heart.
2007-01-29 19:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you do care about him, so do go for it, and try to make it works. never let yoruself to regreat for somethign u enver do, and wish will do. so, go and see what he is all about. if you think he wants sex only, then you can leave. so, you have option once you try, otherwise, u never know, and never find out and always wonder "what if you try".
good luck
2007-01-29 19:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be real do what you think itz right, if you got feeling for him don't hesitate!
2007-01-29 20:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Robloxrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, i would. sounds like you are really into him, go for it
2007-01-29 19:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋