2007-01-29 19:38:32 · 14 answers · asked by goodbye 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
yes, for me, it definitely is. Loving is such a wondrous feeling that it's worth everything to just feel it, even just once. And though the person you love is taken from you, the memories of the love you've shared will always stay.
2007-01-29 19:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Samarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because at least it was a growing experience. Very few of us find Mr. or Ms. Right on the first attempt.
I hated the hurt, though. A lot of times I wished I had never loved but that's not thinking in the long term. My situation was really, really unique, but let's just say I don't think anything could ever be worse than what I went thru. So it can only get better as the old saying goes.
2007-01-30 03:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think and believe it is better to have love lost than have not loved at all. As much as it might hurt, if you have loved you have lived. A person who never has loved never has lived.
It hurts to loose a love on the other hand, even if another person does not love you, you still can love this other person. Love does not mean to possess him, but to feel it in your heart and wish this person happiness. Nobody can take this away from you.
2007-01-30 03:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by I love you too! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is because you learn what love is and what not to do again. I'd rather live with the memory of a lost love than the regret of not having tried
2007-01-30 04:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by BANANA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
truthfully yes, it is better because if you haven't than it would be another day, but now you have that experience that you will be more cautious and you now have become stronger for having to cope with the lost. It is sad to lose something that is loved or cherished but in sadness comes strength, so keep your head up and remember those who don't take chances don't live.
2007-01-30 03:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by mercury_marsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have love and lost than not to have loved at all. When you love, you share yourself and your heart, you learn how to give and how to feel what and you truly are. Loving makes you to understand more about youself and more about your inherent nature which is that of love. I f you've not love before, then you are not fulfilling the law of your being which is to feel the highest emotion which we all long for, whch we are all created for and that emotion is love.
2007-01-30 04:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes , because human experiences make us stronger with the memory of those that we loved and lost and enable us not to make the same mistake when we fall for people who hurt us
2007-01-30 03:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by irene i 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having a love to make me feel wonderful is such a high. BUT, when that love finds someone else and is evil in his treatment of telling me to bug-off, well I get so depressed and hurt and angry at myself for actually believing someone would want to spend time with me. The hurt is so horrible, I tend to want to curl up with a fuzzy dog; they never let you down... They always want your attention and love... and their return love is true...
To me, love has been a short-term path to major long-term hurt... Seeing couples in love and laughing and the elderly who have spent decades together and still have that sparkle in their eyes with each other, is a grand sight....
Being loved for me is only in dreams and novels. Wishful thinking.... It's time for me to buy another fuzzy puppy....
2007-01-30 05:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by SuzieOnQ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have true love you shouldn't be lost. You can have moments when you feel like, but not continuously. You don't have to hang on somebody for getting love. You have to find somebody who can give you what you need and for who you can give what he needs.
It is always possible.
2007-01-30 04:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Love I think is the basis of all emotions. Not experiencing love is, I imagine, like living dead...we just don't know it yet.
2007-01-30 08:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋