why is it that some people dont know to be nice to others?..I see it everywhere, even in Yahoo answers, some people are just plain rude. However much you try to be nice to them, or however you try to say the correct thing to get a serious response from them, they just keep on being insulting.
Its really irritating, they think they are smart but what they are really doing is showing off their stupidity.
Why is that?. Is it something Psychological?
2007-01-29 19:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Sapphire 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Some people on here ARE just kids and think it's funny, and other people just don't have the mental capacity to understand etiquette in public. I just look at where the reponses are coming from and just say to myself, "yea ok whatever, or I'll get right on that-NOT. I might even look at some of their open questions and answer one of them with something rude and insulting. I also look at what they said and know that thier parents didn't teach them manner or how to respect another person. What goes around ,comes around!
2007-01-29 19:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever is in the mind, that comes through words and actions - since thoughts are seeds of the actions - such actions are the result of their inferior or superior attitudes. It is also no wonder that those people are not so serious about their lives nor serious about others feelings.
What all they have is bad and so they can share only that.
We, the curtosy and dignity conscious people should adopt our own measures in facing such rude people.
* We need to remember the fact that when elephant is passing, dogs bark and still elephant proceeds on its way while least caring the shouts.
* We need to so strong inside about our own strenghts that nothing should able to shake the inner values
* When we focus just on the goal of life then all others seems to be mere sight scenes
* We should keep in mind that those rude people are going to get nothing in result of those behaviours - in contrast we the gentle people are going to gain lot of things in result to our good behaviour
* We should keep on good wishes to those rude people, for the reason that even they too may become gentle and polite when once they taste and realise the life. Any body can get a time for their fortune to be awakened - so we should keep good wishes and good behaviours even to them while we are always on safe margin
2007-01-30 03:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
also depend upon the type of Questions asked or may be that person is online and trying to remove some kind of frustration he has on which ever thing he finds 1sta and chances are he might find the question and answer it rudely.
2007-01-30 03:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sam P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They have low self esteems. They have to make other people feel bad in order to feel good. It is a psychological problem, but it can be fixed if they take the time to fix it.
2007-01-30 03:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by manders030405 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Low self esteem - hurting others makes them feel good
What does it cost to be nice?
2007-01-30 03:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by boo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sometimes people want to put others down to make themselves look or seem better. or they are naturally agressive
2007-01-30 03:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by john b 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Misplaced notions of where their real power lies.
2007-01-30 03:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
crazy psychos buy computers too,and their crazy kids use them
2007-01-30 03:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋