Im like so shy all the time never talk to girls even if I like them, all my life ever since the second grade. Could part of my brain be
damaged or inactive. if so how can i get it fixed again?
2007-01-29 18:46:45 · 16 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well I'm 24 and never been kissed or had a boyfriend... and I seem to be perfectly normal (besides that)... guess its just a confidence thing ... also some people may be intimidated for some reason... maybe (even though its not what you want) you give off touch-me-not vibes (well thats what I keep getting told!)... Its a mystery to me why I haven't been asked out yet (hee hee) coz I think I'm great... but anyway, just try and relax, don't think so hard and it will seem easier to talk to girls... we're not that scary (most of us anyway). GOOD LUCK
2007-01-29 19:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by tarzanatvw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the perfect brain to be away from girls - you are lucky - respect them that enough but don't think of any silly issues of brain damage ... etc.
realise a good personality in you and just remove over all inferior complex - getting a girl friend isn't the life - there is much beauty even without it - just enjoy - don't worry
2007-01-29 23:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a brain damage. Maybe a facial damage or body damage. Haha... sorry, just kidding.
You're just shy. Too shy to my opinion. 30 yrs without any girlfriend is cruel. What about your friends? maybe they can set you up with someone, and if they did, admit to that girl that you are really shy when it comes to talking to women. Hopefuly they'll understand. If not, ask them to set you up again.
Trust me, if any women understand your condition and you spend quite some time with them, you'll get over the shy part.
2007-01-29 19:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by BryanB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jay, I'm positively sure you don't have brain damage. I'd recommend seeking a therapist. Perhaps by doing so you will get to the core of your shyness towards women, whether a past event triggered it or if it's a self-esteem issue.
2007-01-29 19:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by GlitzNGlam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're not brain damaged. If you're painfully shy, though, you should probably talk to a counselor about it. They usually guide you to higher self confidence through activities and instructions, then you can use those new skills in a social atmosphere.
2007-01-29 19:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by mina_lumina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yor not damaged just shy and uneasy . do u have any friends that are girls if so start off that way.befriends first then move on when you are ready. make sure that the girl is the same level as you. you dont to feel pressured . good luck
2007-01-29 19:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by yp_stephanie_el_monte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay dude dont rush it itll happen and dont worry about not having a gf yet youve got your entire life ahead of you ittl start to pick up when your around 14 some ppl go through their entire lives alone im sure youll get some one because clearly your open and chix dig that lol and dont worry about being shy i was too and i did well for myself I got asked out a bunch of times, im a dude just be yourself be a nice, easy going kid thats it be happy ITS ALL GOOD although i recomend at least asking one chick out if she sez yes GOOD 4 U if no the youve got a good story and some experience LMAO MY LIFE STORY
2016-03-29 09:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There probably is nothing wrong with you except you need to take a chance and start speaking to women.Try going to church,the park,joining a club and ask some of your friends to fix you up.Remember being shy doesn't mean your doomed to be alone.Good luck,you deserve it.
2007-01-29 18:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by onesickchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm...Shy doesnt lead to brain damage...neither do brain damage link with shy...haha...
Think you should open up yourself more in the mind first.
I think there should be reason why you don talk to girls.
Try to take a deep breath first ---> relax ---> go to the girl (your friend or colleague) ----> start any topic to chat with...take things easy and slowly. it doesn't mean you talk to them then they must be your girlfriend straight. haha...good luck...
2007-01-29 18:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not demented, you're just shy and that's natural. Perhaps you could take up some sports or outdoor activities to widen your circle of (female) friends. Ask yourself if there is something about you (physically) that you dont like or wish you could change and work on that. Hint : Girls like healthy-looking boys :-)
Also, eat more chocolates! -- dont ask me why ;p
2007-01-29 18:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋