I feel she is not giving me the same heat and she may be lost interest in me ..I love her ..I tried various things,,going out to different places ,,trying different position ,,but still it is not like before ..
2007-01-29 18:37:58 · 14 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's hard to say, the easiest and hardest way is to just ask her what's going on. Ask her of she still feels the same intimacy with you like before, but it could also be something that she can't control biologically. Wetness is really hard to gauge, but if she's still passionate about what you two have, then that shouldn't stop you two.
2007-01-29 18:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by yangyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really surprised you would call it off because your girlfriends vagina isn't as wet anymore. That's really what it boils down to.
This normally happens in the relationship. It's happened in my past relationships. Simply because he didn't spend enough time preheating the oven before he stuck in the turkey.
My last boyfriend never did anything before we had sex, so it wound up hurting like hell and he had a hard time getting in. Then I'd wind up saying sorry for it. Now I regret saying sorry and wish I wouldn't have done it when he didn't do anything to get me going. I think you're just missing the spark that happens when the relationship is brand new. You try to do it wherever you can. As the relationship progresses, things slow down and you get more comfortable with eachother.
There must be other things going on for you to think about ending and blaming it on vaginal dryness.
2007-01-30 04:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eh, it could be nothing. For me personally, it has nothing to do with how much I desire my man. There's a simple timeline on these things, the more time he spends warming me up, the more time my body has to catch up to what's going on and respond to it. If she's like the Sahara EVERY TIME, though, she may be plenty attracted to you but emotionally unreceptive, OR she could be not attracted to you, OR she could have some sort of underlying girl hormone thing going on. If it were me and I was bored silly and unresponsive, a little surprise would probably do the trick, like flip her over and do it in some other position, don't even ask her, just do it, just shake her up and out of the routine. I loves me some chocolate shakes but sometimes I order strawberry, you know what I mean? That doesn't mean I go to a different place to buy them though, I like my usual place just fine...
2007-01-30 02:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by tiny_dog10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, we cannot produce the same amount everytime. I know from personal experience. Some women are affected by the time of the month, medication, stress, etc. Is she still having sex with you? Is it enjoyable for you both? Then all is ok a woman's body goes through a lot of changes and maybe this is one of them. Talk to her see if anything is wrong or bothering her, maybe she can help you to realize everything is ok. Good luck!
2007-02-03 00:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call it off, it is a sign that your hungers have been appeased, now you need something different, with more intensity to spice up your lives. It is a challenge, but it will payoff well. It is 3 years, u should have learnt how to handle her, and what triggers her, be careful in your communication with her, to get the correct hints, that can make her hot.
2007-01-30 02:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always change and you should tell what is on your mind .Love is not about sex and maybe the problem is with you and not her so ask her how she feels about you and ask her what she would like you to do in bed.If you make her happy you will also benefit because she will make you happy also and both of you will be happy and satisfied with each other.
2007-01-30 02:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by cleo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats dificult bro u may find that its her body dats changing not bcoz of loss of interest in sex try to take long time in forplay and play with her thing very fast that maybe can help if not then seek medical advice
2007-01-30 02:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize this is unnecessarily accusatory, but are you spending the same amount of time on foreplay as you did in the past?
2007-01-30 03:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, maybe something is bothering her and it affects her sex drive. Why dont you guys try going into a sex shop.....get some stuff to spice up your relationship....they have different kinds of stimulators you guys can use.
2007-01-30 02:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her like your car if its start to make noise and a little dry then use a little lube its make the car run better also have fun try some movie
2007-01-30 03:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋