if i like girls and boys and have feelings for both but cant get a girl to turn me on am i gay. i also dont like how gay people act and i act like a guy. i like doing it with boys and if i do it with girls i have no problem with it. i like watching two girls together. i also like being with girls. i think they are hot. so wat am i gay stright or bi helppppppppppppppp?
2007-01-29 18:23:24 · 22 answers · asked by bem g 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
don't bother trying to put yourself in a catagory that you don't feel like you fit in. You are you and that's all you need to be.
2007-01-29 18:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Strikernow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everything is constructed. First understand homosexualality is constructed, just like hetrosexuality is constructed.
The Formula For Constructing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality Plus That First Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Homosexual Experiences Multiplied By More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Homosexual.
The Formula For constructing A Hetrosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward hetrosexuality Plus That First Hetrosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Hetrosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Hetrosexual Experiences Multiplied By
More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Hetrosexual.
If you have constructed sexual desires for both sexes you are bisexual.
There is gender nonconformity. That is misunderstood by many to be homosexuality in men or women. There characteristics may seem to appear to the opposite gender. Some may be born with hormonal issues that cause a predisposition to gender nonconformity, while some children may learn characteristics that appear to belong to the opposite gender causing them to have gender nonconformity. Not all children with a gender nonconformity will be homosexual, and not all children that are homosexual will have a gender nonconformity.
2007-01-30 01:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't be straight if you question yourself, and that you like guys. Just b/c you don't like some gay guys does not mean that all gay guys are like that. I am more masculine than most, and I can't stand a girly gay guy, it just irritates and freaks me out. I bet you are Bi, however if only guys turn you on, then you are gay, just you like girls and believe me I think a lot of girls are sexy as hell!! But that does not mean that they turn me on.
Good Luck in finding yourself, and remember that your thoughts and your own opinion is the only one that matters in this situation. It is your life and you have to live, just don't be affraid to take the reins, and pilot your life your way!!!
2007-01-29 18:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by brock2296 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it is safe to say your not stright because im pretty sure that's not an orientation. lol, but i like what the first girl said, what difference does it make...unless your a christian and plan on going to heaven, then gay or bi is a sin.
2007-01-29 18:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're bi, but more like a 4 on the Kinsey scale (aka predominantly homosexual, but still somewhat attracted to girls).
2007-01-29 19:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple. You're human.
Don't stress on something as minor as a lable. Just be careful when you're with someone and always play safe.
And if someone asks you if you're gay, bi or straight...you can say...you're all that and none of it. Why? Because you're you. There's only one you in this world and you're special...in every way.
2007-01-29 18:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why you want to label yourself.... if you're happy with your love life why does it matter if you gay, straight or bi? I suggest that you don't get caught up in all the labels and just enjoy yourself ;o)
2007-01-29 18:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that guys have sex with other guys because they are afraid that they might get the girl pregnant and don't want to take that chance and that girls have sex with other girls because of the same reason. If there is a chance that you can get a girl pregnant then you are thinking about it and don't want to be in that position (no pun intended!). We all like sex but if there is a determining factor, I believe that is the one. Sex with a member of the same sex means no future worry. Lets all just enjoy who we are with, with no worries.
2007-01-30 11:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by loose_canadian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
But not all gay men act like women, that is a stereotype. The way you act has nothing to do with your sexuality. If you are sexually attracted to men and women you are bisexual. If you are only sexually attracted to men you are gay. If you are only sexually attracted to women you are straight. (This is based on Kinsey's scale of sexual attraction).
2007-01-29 18:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you are bi ........ try making out with a guy and find out how its like
2007-01-29 19:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋