also i dont like gay people and dont like acting like a girl. but i also injoy watching 2 girls toggerther. and if i ever do it with a girl i would do it with no problem. if she wanted to and i would like it but i would not get tuned on. pleas help me wat am i gay/by of stright?
2007-01-29 17:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by bem d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
One hell-of-a-confused being.
2007-01-29 17:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sexually aroused by both male's and female's you would be considered bisexual. I think what you mean when you say "i dont like gay people and dont like acting like a girl" is that you're not attracted to the stereotypical gay male, but what you'll find is that many gay men don't fit this mold (or only do in some ways). Yes, some are as gay as say the Queer Eye for the Straight Guy bunch, but that's just one variable in the gay community.
One part of your question confuses me. The part where you say "and if i ever do it with a girl i would do it with no problem. if she wanted to and i would like it but i would not get tuned on." I'm not sure you're stating that you would or wouldn't be aroused by sexual acts with a female. If you don't get aroused then you just might be gay and if you do then definitely bisexual (if you still get aroused by males as well of course).
The best thing you can do for yourself is do a little "soul searching" and maybe give yourself a little more time to come into your own. Just remember that your sexual identity be it gay, straight or bisexual is just one part of you and doesn't make your whole being. You can be gay or bisexual without fitting the stereotypical "flamer" role that is often shown out there. You also can be attracted to masculine guys if that's your preference as well (and you will find masculine gay/bi guys out there). Good luck and take care!
P.S. Did you know that a pretty good chunk of gay porn is purchased by lesbians? The reason I state this is that most people will get turned on by watching people go at it be it gay, bi, straight or lesbian porn. Might explain why you get aroused watching two girls go at it. Just thought I'd throw it out there.
2007-01-29 18:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by xander2025 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So how do you not like gay people, but wouldn't have a problem having relations with women. . .you like men and women, women just dont turn you on......hmmmmm.... I wouldnt say you were bi or gay, more like confused!
2007-01-30 03:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont like gay people but a you would have same sex relations with another and if you did have same sex relations with another you would enjoy it but not be turned on i dont se that being possible yes you are very confused
2007-01-29 18:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by milifis frikngret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are pretty much confused.... Sexual identity is a big issue and practically everyone is trying to find out who they are so give yourself time. It will be clear to you one day.
Blesses.
2007-01-29 18:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...how old are you..you don't sound as if you have really formed a sexual identity as yet..it'll happen.
2007-01-29 18:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋