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2007-01-29 17:52:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
seriously, who knows what life is meant to be. I do know that life is what you make of it. There WILL be problems and it WILL be hard, but there are so many great and beautiful things about life that you cannot waste time focusing too much on the bad or difficult things. We only get one chance at this thing called life, so make the most of it!
2007-01-29 17:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think life is not meant to be difficult because the difficulties in life is created by life itself which means that obstacles and ordeals are the cause and effect of what you made in the past.So for as long as difficult people produces this difficult situations, there will always be difficulties in life which is not suppose to mean that way.Anyhow, no challenges and pains, there will be no gains.
2007-01-30 02:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by lizashibuya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it doesn't have to be that way because it really depend on how you feel about it. People are able to treat life full of meaningful things through out their day. Why? For example, when you had some unhappy things happened, such as you break off with your boyfriend. Think about it, you can choose not to be sad, cause it's a good lesson for you of what you had gone through so far, and you'll get stronger. In life it had to be difficult, in order to enjoy. Another example, if you get to shop for the rest of your life, isn't it boring? everyday just buy whatever you like, without anything that you really wish to get it with your own hand, own hardwork? =) hope this can help you out
2007-01-30 02:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by ahyi89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is meant to be lovely and nice and all that! You may have some problems here and there, but remember that for every problem, there is a solution. If you can go in, you should be able to come out. You need to look ahead at the day your life won't be as bad as it is now.
2007-01-30 01:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what it is. It is the people who view it who have the power to view it as difficult or happy or whatever. You can't control what the universe presents to you but you certainly can control how you receive it. Your reactions, your attitude, your response to what life presents to you, all this is up to you. You get to choose. You can't control what's thrown at you but you can control how you catch it. So lighten up, decide that life is going to offer you riches of experience, opportunities for learning and prospects for magnificent growth. Every day thank the universe (and your personal god) for what you know will be a day filled with opportunities. And at the end of the day, say thank you again.
2007-01-30 02:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have come to the conclusion that everything in life is centred around the word choice be it a right choice or a wrong choice. This is the only freedom that has been given to man - namely CHOICE. What we choose is what we get. How we program our thoughts is what we become and percieve. What we experience through our choices is the result of what was chosen.
We really are the masters of our own destiny.
What we watch on tele and fill our minds with is what moulds us. We begin to trust in things that are questionable and are moulded into accepting what the world tells us to do. IF wwe go with the flow, over the edge we will go! If hoever we choose to swim against the flow and upwards we go, we do face difficulties and hardships but then rough diamonds do need refining.
We have to learn to control our minds and thoughts and literally take our thoughts captive. We can choose to accept a thought or to reject it.
If we live by feelings and emotions we will certainly swallow wrong thoughts so we have to override them and choose to forgive, choose to operate confidently and positively if we want a win win situation in life. Its all part of the maturing process. We need to becopme accountable and operate with integrity and dignity, dont you think?
So what are you going to do with your thoughts?
2007-01-30 02:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of tests.
I don't know why but I just look at things like this.
Everything happens for a reason, period. Rather it's good or bad something else will come out of it, something that was meant to be for me, its just up to me on how I deal with it.
2007-01-30 02:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It depends on what you mean by difficult. You gain wisdom by the number of challenges you experience. If you keep a positive outlook you will get through to next one easier. It does get better hang in there.
2007-01-30 02:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by George B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only as difficult as you make it. Life is a beautiful thing, however time waits on no man or woman so live your life and remember your GOD only gives you what you can handle !!!
2007-01-30 01:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by gee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Though life may be filled with difficulties and struggles, it is in these challenges that the inner most strength of the heart is formed.
-NmD!
2007-01-30 02:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋