I m 24. Did not had any friends from my school days, college days even now, in my profession. At times i was close to people but did not taken effort convert those into great friendship. The only i was close his to my close family members. But I use to have misunderstanding with them as well, at those moments i felt like i was missing out on friends, but other times, i was happy with my books, TV & internet. What should i do now? How do i know someone is good friend if not one who make friend, I heard someone say it is better to be alone rather than with some bad company!.
2007-01-29 17:43:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maddy, first things first. You are your own best friend. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself without judgment. You ar unique in the universe. If you can learn to love yourself you will find others will gravitate toward you because you are comfortable in your own skin. Those who need reassurance, who need validation, who need recognition because they don't feel complete with themselves, those people will scramble for acquaintances because they need the validation. Those who feel comfortable with themselves will not have to chase after friends, friends will find them. So learn to love yourself and to accept yourself and others will find you and want to be your friend. Honor yourself by the choices you make in your friends.
2007-01-29 17:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im alone and its better than wasting my time with "friends"
2007-01-30 01:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋