when I was 13 0r 14 I use to stil my dads nude maganzes from under his and my moms bed ,i hgave it up after a while but im 18 now and been 18 for a while im amost 19 and i went to my mom and dads room to look for his nude magazen but couldnt find them . I plains on getting a nude magazen of women at the sex shop but the problem is my mom took me the alast time and she would be the one to take me there this time , we have a close relationship ,i can till her stuff most girls wouldnt till there mom but Im afraid of what she will say when she see's me looking at or holding a nude maganze of women . what should I till her ? and should i be worried about the fact that i wants this kind of maganze?its like I like guys very much but I like to view nude women but why iam straight?
By the way Iam a girl
2007-01-29 17:23:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if you and your mom are close then you should be able to talk to her about why you want the magaizines. Of course if she asks. . . You are 18, almost 19, you should be able to go to the store by yourself... But dont be afraid to be you. Talk to her before you go to the store. That way you dont put her in an uncomfortable situation when you get to the store if shes not as understanding as you think,
2007-01-30 03:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let people make fun of You. You are just going through a stage in the growing up process. As Your body changes You will want to compare it with those of ours.It is quite normal to show an interest in the human body. Pictures of naked females are far easier to access that those of Males. Don't worry. You may feel confused now but it will pass.
2007-01-30 01:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am straight woman and as far as I know IT IS NORMAL for us to see nude girls (some are cute)
I appreciate the beauty of a woman and a men.
On the contrary MOST straight men do not like to see nude men......
I think you do not have to worry and look in any closet, u are human and will be stupid if u see cute girls and say they r ugly......
JUST GO TO BARNS AND NOBLES AND SIT THERE AND BUY OR JUST LOOK AT MAGAZINES THERE ,IS A LIBRARY AND THEY LET U LOOK AT BOOKS EVEN IF U DO NOT BUY THEM
2007-01-30 01:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you have a great relationship with your mother...not every young person has that relationship.......
you should have the privacy to have nude mags in your room....
as for telling your mom.....AND......wondering why your straight.....you have a few years to sort that out...its hard to talk about something your not sure of.....time and experience will solve it.
many of us have a period were we are attracted to our own gender....then decide it is not us.....as for boyfriend....if the drama was too much.....he's leave you.......
hopefully you have a computer...have file of nudes....
good luck
2007-01-30 04:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi , I think you should be open with your mom. And explain to her basically the same way you did here. If it really bothers you. Its not uncommon for women to look at other women. I'm sure there are a lot of women out there that look but don't admit it. Best of luck Mike aka babiboi =)
2007-02-05 04:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by babiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being curious. It doesn't necessarily make you gay (although there's nothing wrong with that either). Women have beautiful bodies. Nothing wrong with looking at them. I would suggest either just tell your mom that you're just looking or have someone else get the mags for you.
2007-01-30 01:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by just jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you go to the adult shop with her- it seems like youre REALLY close... SUBER close! you really shouldnt have too much of a problem telling her you want a lesbo porno. ......she should understand.
maybe you dont even need to tell her.. while at the shop, just browse around by yourself- pick up the mag you want -just like you'd do with any magazine. BE CASUAL.
2007-01-30 01:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may only be a passing phase in your life. It happens to most others too, but it passes with time. Don't get excited, but enjoy yourself it will pass.
2007-01-30 01:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I think I'm gay." or "I think I'm bi" only you can know the difference.
2007-01-30 02:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by hairy pouter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋