PURELY scientific question and comparison; and not meant to be lewd in any way!
Does your male partner make noise of any kind during orgasm with you? If so, how loud and if not: do you wish he would?
My husband is VERY quiet (we have been together 7 years and married 1...both have had other sex partners.) Our sex life is FANTASTIC, but I have told him I wish he would express himself more (he seems to hold back at the "end." though he has no problem with "dirty talk" prior)? It is NOT an issue, we are close in every way imaginable. I know his "silent cues", and love him regardless but just wonder if this is average. Hopefully, in order to help him overcome whatever is holding him back; I told him I would ask here and he is open to answers!
Not being gross, just looking for honest comparisons. Thank you in advance!
2007-01-29 17:20:28 · 16 answers · asked by bubblingbroo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex would start moaning and screaming like a girl. What a turn off. It wasn't even sexual. It was a wet blanket. He was quiet at first and then he heard me and after that he mimicked my every sound. It was so annoying. The worst time I ever had. I haven't had anyone to compare with since him. But, I am not knocking him letting loose, but when he starts to sound like he is trying out for the lead girls part in a porn movie, aarrgggh. I couldn't stand it. Oh, well. To each his own I suppose, which is to say, he isn't mine anymore.....;~D
2007-01-29 17:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance makes some noise - he'll talk dirty - which is good... quiet sex is the worst though. He's not so loud that the neighbors would hear him (unless he's asleep and snoring lol) but he's loud enough that someone in the next room could definitely assume what's going on. (I'm louder then he is though - any noise he makes probably gets drowned out anyway)
2007-01-30 01:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same issue with my guy! Turned out he was embarassed to let loose, and as many times as I told him it was fine and in fact a turn on, he wouldn't do it for the longest time. How I finally got him to was...well, I guess this might be too much information, but whatever. He will tell me when I'm about to come that he wants to hear me, or that he wants to hear his name. I started doing the same thing back to him, and he got the idea. He's still not exctly waking the neighbors, but I do get a pretty rousing response.
2007-01-30 02:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's a mans perspective on this. When I first made love to my wife, I roared during that orgasm. She was shocked......She had never been with someone who had made noise, whether alone roared....lol So after a bit of time went by she finally got around to asking me, "How come you are so loud when you have an orgasm?" And I said, "Because if it feels good, why should I keep it in"....Not long after, she started roaring too.....Now we roar nightly...LOL
2007-01-30 01:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, my husband talks his orgasm out especially before it happens and he makes a loud grasp once it's through. I love it that we're that open because at first he never dared to express himself.
2007-01-30 01:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine uses silent cues too. And otherwise, pretty much totally silent. I don't mind though. I listen with the heart. We've been married 25 years.
2007-01-30 01:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by TPhi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of my sexual partners have been quiet. Well, the male ones. My husband and I have a frank discussion about vocalizations and how much it turned me on. We agreed to try it and he was very surprised at how intense things got. He makes breathy sighs, groans, growls, and sometimes even will...roar. mmmmm, yummy.
2007-01-30 02:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sterling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every now and then I'll screwm like a black porn star, just for kicks, as I laugh my *** off when they nut on film. Not only are they musical people, but they love to make loud grunting monkey noises when they orgasm.
2007-01-30 01:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is very loud during orgasm, but my ex was very quiet only to breathe very hard......just depends on the person I guess.
2007-01-30 01:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My current guy was like that when we first were together. I never knew when he was... there! I encouraged him to announce his arrival.. I said, "Gee, I wish I knew when it was happening, it would be so hot for me to know you were about to..." After a few times of saying that, now the whole block hears it. Be careful what you ask for - ask carefully! LOL
2007-01-30 01:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋