My companion listened to "Talk Radio" he mentioned that comedian Steve Harvey feels that if a man is over 45 he will never get married my companion is 45 Steve Harvey also mentioned a man has issues if marriage has never crossed a mans mind. My companion have had heart to heart talks about marriage & how we both want it so bad. so I did a relationship review with him to find out if marriage would still be an option ? my companion told me something totaly diffrent. he now says he don't know how to spell marriage. & he thinks we should not talk about it. it's too early. we have been dating for three months. but he has a key to my place. he pays alot of child support. he still live with his parents. now I have accepted all of his baggage. we have made love, but it's to early for marriage talk but not too early to use my house key.
2007-01-29 17:14:27 · 5 answers · asked by noraminer@yahoo.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must sit down and review a few things....
1. He has to pay a lot of child support (which means he's not with the mother(s) of his children... when/if you have kids - where will he be?
2. He's 45 years old and lives with his parents - That's a very bad sign.
3. He has a key to your place and therefore has free reign over your house and your life.
Why on Earth would he want to get married when everything in life has been handed to him it seems. He's not shown responsibility - you need to move on if you ever want to get married because I don't think this man is the marrying type.
2007-01-29 17:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are moving a little too fast. You make love to him and give him your house key, and then talk about marriage. This guy is going to panic and leave you, the way you are going. Slow down. Take the house key back, cut off the sex for awhile and establish an emotional connection first.
2007-01-29 18:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At his age you are right, if it's not too early to use the house key then it's not too early to talk about marriage.
You need to express to him that life is too short, especially at your age and you want to get married someday and if he is absolutely not interested in marriage ever then you will have to call it quits, see what happens.
2007-01-29 19:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you cant not look at what someone else think about
marriage, when the time is right then the person wil do what
he feel is right for him /her.but for you , you only been with
him for 3 months,. take some time to get to know him.but you
have some issues that you need to address. he live at home
at 45, that not good. he has a key to our house.. sound like
you need to look at this, it not looking good at all,
2007-01-29 17:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is too early. Take some more time to get to know each other, when the time is right, it will happen.
2007-01-29 17:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋