2007-01-29 17:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Evtm 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
First feel to be loved, then people will love you.
Try to change your environment around you, such as move away, so that you can start a new leaf and situation will change. Don't trap yourself inside a shell.
Since you are feeling what you feel I think it is very difficult "Hanging in there", or put a blind belief that eventually someone is there for you. Instead, start to change yourself, not other people. You'll feel differently about yourself and I'm sure you'll change your perspective towards your life.
Good luck.
2007-01-29 17:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by abc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I know all about this as I have been there. Depression, for whatever reason, can really take hold of you and make you think irrationally. The answer to your question is definately YES. Life IS worth living. Because my friend, things could change on a dime! You may feel all horrible and unhappy today, but next week your true love could show up...just like that! Any one of your circumstances could change in the future, leaving you to wonder how it is you could have ever felt like you do now in the first place. If you think that you know the reason you can't feel loved then my advice to you is to get some councelling to deal with the issue. If it's simply because the right person hasn't come along yet, do not fret! There is someone for everyone, even though you do not think so. If however you do not know or understand why you can't feel loved and there are people around who love you, then perhaps you have an illness of depression. This is easily treated with antidepressants, and there is no shame in taking them. Some people also suffer from seasonal depression. If you live in a wintery cold area then you may go through this. Seasonal depression is caused by lack of sunlight and usually cures itself in the spring or with light therapy during the winter months.
The most important thing in being able to feel loved, is to love yourself. You have to learn to be happy with just you. Until that happens, noone else can make you feel loved. You may have some insecurity issues to deal with. Cheer up! Life can be real bad at times, but things always get better. Make a list of all the things that you love about yourself and BELIEVE them. Once you love you, others will also because it will show in your countenance. :)
2007-01-31 08:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bewitched 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Evtm - I have read three of your questions and you sound very depressed and unhappy at the moment. I am sorry about how you feel. Life is always worth living. Life is about conquering adversities and just about keep going.
If you feel very unloved and unappreciated or under appreciated and depressed please seek some help. There are lots of good counsellors and people in the helping fields or have a look at these web sites. But I do ask you to go and see your GP and talk about some medication that can clear your head and make yuo fel a little bit better so you can get some help by talking to a counsellor or even a help line on the telephone. I dont know what country you are from but there are help lines, care lines and life lines where qualified telephone counsellors can talk with you.
2007-01-29 17:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, U are just supposed to love, not feel loved. I planted a mango tree, 10 years ago, and I tasted the fruit only now. So sow love, and u will reap it, maybe, many years later. This is the law of nature, you reap what u sow, but after some time, even after we forget. So life is worth living waiting for your love to fructify and come back a 100 fold more.
2007-01-29 17:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know we've all thought that at some point. Myself included, after my four year relationship/engagement ended I thought something quite similar.
The truth is you can make it worth living, and just because you don't feel loved now, doesn't mean you never will.
Hang in there *hug*
2007-01-29 17:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first. Then you are ready to love others. Trust the Universe that it comes to you. I am sure it has already, but maybe you have not seen it. Look carefully for the small things that support that love is there. I truely believe that the fact that you were born means that there is a loving purpose or more for you.
2007-01-29 17:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u bet b/c eventually u will feel that love, and even when u least expect it, struggling with that one myself, just keep patient that it will happen, different types of love, try loving yaself and thinking about how loves u just as u are even if u cant feel it. I love b/c Jesusloves me and thats some kinda love, still waitn on some human love though but 4 now i focus on that. Neva give up on love
2007-01-29 17:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by lovely me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is, I believe there is someone out there for everyone, you just have to be patient. If you feel you can't be loved, then maybe your pushing people away. If you believe something at times it comes true. Hang In there.
2007-01-29 17:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by anthony b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But if you have to TRY to feel loved, then you know... there's a problem.
2007-01-29 17:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by * 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No kill yo self.... COME ON get a grip if people can love killers and BUSH they can love you too
2007-01-29 17:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋