I have been a coxin for my college mens rowing team this year. i'm the only girl, all the guys are like my brothers. (in the past on drunken nights I have kissed 3 of them) It's discouraged that the coxins and rowers have relationships or hook up for fear of someone quitting so u have 2 keep it cool.
The best rower on my team who's like my brother kissed me after a night out on friday and we did alot of kissing and talking until we fell asleep. It was perfect. He got to me that night.
Unlike the others he kept it a secret, no teammates knows. The problem is the kiss happened saturday at like 1:30 - 5:30 am and I see him every day at pratice and races but he hasn't made an attempt 2 hang out with me since. He is really serious about rowing though and I would NEVER EVER get in the way of that.
Think I should just drop it and going back like nothing happened, or wait for him to make his mind up. I just don't want to get 2 caught up in him and get my heart broken. What do u think?
2007-01-29 16:43:24 · 2 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
he has been iming me everyday and we see each other at pratice, unfortinatly he acts like we are just back to being best friends (so do I). Do we need to talk about it... even though it sucks cause I like him do we drop this...
2007-01-29 16:44:40 · update #1
girls are always like this--over analyzing everything and expecting what shouldn't be expected. if the guy wants a serious relationship, he'll tell you. otherwise leave it alone. by acting like you don't care you will be more effective in hooking him than acting like something is wrong. that will push him away. hard to get gets the man.
2007-01-29 17:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by gvchina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him about it and tell him you like him and ask if he likes you.
2007-01-30 00:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋