We will spend the weekend together "sleepover" and I want it to be special. How can I tell her that I am *** for her?
2007-01-29 16:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell it to her when you're totally ready. think about the consequences first before having your move. however, i think it would be great to tell it to her once you're getting ready to sleep. first thing, joke around with her. just to brighten up the coversation. then slowly ask her what does she feel when she's with you. then tell her you feel happy when you're with her. that you miss her and always looking forward to see her. don't be so serious saying it that it might freak her out. look into her eyes and feel her reaction. trust me, you'll know if there's something in there. by the way, does she know that you're a lesbian? if she does it would be easier. once you'll hear the words 'i feel the same way to you too' or just seeing that she's really listening, tell her 'you are my friend but i love you more than that'... 'i do love you'. then hold her hands. if she won't resist then congrats, she might feel the same way with you.
2007-01-29 17:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow, does she have a feeling? Is she a lesbian? I don't know if telling her while you're having a sleepover is the best time. she might freak out a bit. I don't know her but I know people who would if they felt trapped. will she have her own car there?
I see how you want the weekend to go and how you're hoping it will go. I hope it will go that way too. good luck. but don't force her and don't get her drunk tht's the worse thing. make sure you are both sober and close when you tell her. feel her out (not physically) first and see when the right time is. good luck. keep me posted.
2007-01-30 00:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
i think that it's not a good idea to tell her you love her when you're not even together. couples can date for a long time and not say the words i love you to each other until they've been through a lot. i think you need to tell her that you like her and leave it up to her to decide if she likes you too.
2007-01-30 04:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is really very important to find out if she is gay before even approaching her. are you sure she doesn't see men? if not, why not? why don't you talk to her about dating first? see if she believes that you mean dating men, not women. just like the other lady said, feel her out (not physically).
2007-01-30 00:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is two ways to do it.
1) Just start touching her if she likes it keep going and then kiss her
2) Ask her about what she thinks about lesbians when you next to her in bed. (setting is important.) Maybe even a better thing to ask is "have you ever wanted to know what its like to kiss a girl" If she says yes try kissing her.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-30 00:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
just like you just did.
2007-01-30 00:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
getter drunk
2007-01-30 00:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by big_e_40 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋