Suppose Angrish was a lonely boy of 18 when he meets Angela, a 15 year old underprivileged girl. Because of Angrish's romantic nature Angela falles in love with him. Angrish was not ready for a long term relationship, but he always felt a need for a GF, since he had been alone for the most part of his life. Think as "see where it leads" Angrish says yes to Angela and they become lovers. As time goes Angrish starts to really like her seeing that there are so many things that he used to take for granted but for Angela those were like "WoW". For example Angela's first car ride was in the Angrish car! In the mean time Angela's whole world becomes Angrish. For her it is Angrish after God and nothing else. She is completely dependent on him. But as time passes Angrish that he actually never fell in love with her. For him she has been just another friend who he has been fond of. Angrish doesn't really find any physical or mental comfort in her, but he knows that with out him she has no one..
2007-01-29 16:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by UpNorthDownSouth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he leave her she would be as good as dead. But Angrish realize he can never be actually happy with her, it will all be just acting and it will heart her as much as it will heart him. Angrish does not particularly like some other girl but he know Angela is not the one. He does not fell any attraction. For him she is like a daughter. Even when angrishs has to stay away for a long time he doesn't miss her. But Angela calls everyday, sometime which seems very annoying to Angrish, since he was not expecting her call. he finds answering yahoo answer more interesting then talking with her. But Angrish never said any of these to her. He is a fine actor and acts every emotion to her. But sometimes she also realizes, and asks if anything is wrong. Angrish avoids the question by saying everything is fine, just Job stress. He know he can never live with him self if he hurts her. What should he do? What would you do?
2007-01-29 16:37:36 · update #1
Although it seems hard, Angrish should break up with her. It was not fair to either of them when Angela made him her entire world. She needs to be her own person because it sounds like she is not at all.
2007-01-29 16:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get on with his life and let her know his true feeling for her. She need to get out and see for herself what life really is.
People should not be dependent on another person. If Angrish were to get sick or pass away she would not know what in the world to do. He needs to help her see what life really is. She needs to get out and meet other people and socialize with others.
2007-01-30 12:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chillin-it 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be honest with her. In the long run it will be the kindest thing he can do for both of them. I know from experience that staying with someone you don't love is not good for either person. It's better to let go and move on.
2007-01-30 12:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by catfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Angrish should talk to anglea, tell her how he feels but do it gently. try and make her understand they still can be friends not lovers. He doesn't have to tell her that he would prefer to answer questions on yahoo then talk to her, just tell her that he's glad he could make a difference in her life and he hopes she will always be friends with him. somewhere out there, there is someone that is right for him and her but they are not right for each other. be gentle
Good luck
2007-01-29 16:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be honest with her and let her know how he feel. if he
truly does not feel as she does, then time to move on. she would
be hurt but living a lie would hurt more. she need to find her
self and she sound like she found her life in this man and that
not good. the longer you put this off the harder will get for
you and her. good luck.
2007-01-29 16:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off "angrish" should be ashamed of himself because he knew how the young girl felt and toying with her emotions at that age is very unwise she could grow up alone and never trusting anyone again and at that age she may even become suicidle if she is as dependent as you say she is it wasnt wise for "him" to persue that opption
2007-01-29 18:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by K.C. W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldent have put her in this situation in the first place wich shows me you never truly did love her if you did you would have let it sit till you know what was best for her and prayed about it not just bget infatuated and then loose the little "feelings" and then just leave
2007-01-29 16:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by -=N/\TE-T|-|E-GR/\ET=- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋