im 31 weeks preg and ever since i got big well even when i bareley started to show my man dosent ever wanna be sexual with me. he makes me fill so unatractive!!!!what should i do?
2007-01-29 16:24:04 · 25 answers · asked by Megan A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Talk to him. He may have issues about having sex because your baby is growing inside you. Talking is the key though.
2007-01-29 16:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by doofynic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably thinking he is going to hurt you or the baby. I had this problem with my first pregnancy.. and he stated that he was afraid. If men do not understand it.. then they will shelter themselves from it. Now with this pregnancy, since he understands that it can not hurt the baby.. he is more willing. But I am high risk and keep my distance from him..lol. I think you need to have a heart to heart with him.. let him know how you feel. He may not realize that he is even doing this. Also note: that if you have sex.. you will more than likely have some Braxton Hicks contractions afterwards.. do not let him know about them.. he will be standoffish all over again.. thinking he hurt you. Good luck.
2007-01-29 17:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 04:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Communication really is they key, you never know, maybe he feels out of place, like you have this new bond with the baby, and there's no place for him there... Or maybe you've given him the impression that you're not as interested in sex anymore, without really meaning to. It could be any number of things, but if you don't talk to him about it, you'll never be able to even try to solve the problems or issues that he has.
2007-01-29 16:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to address the issue with him... find out what his problem is, he could be afraid of hurting you or the baby. I have never had this problem. My husband and tons of other men out there find pregnant women sexy. My hubby loves when I am pregnant. Reassure him that it's okay to have sex, he won't hurt the baby, and also remind him that it will be a good month or two before you can have sex after the baby is born. Good luck...
2007-01-29 19:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to him about it. Let him know that it wont hurt the baby and some dr think it may even help pregnant women, lower blood pressure, happier, less stress. Mine did the same thing with our first but he got over it once he knew the baby would be fine. and dont blame yourself if he wont make you happy find something that will!
2007-01-29 16:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by siriusblossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him why. Most men get scared to have sex once their girlfriends/wives are showing as they think they will stab the baby or something.
I had to take mine to the Dr and get the Dr to tell him the baby would be fine cause he didnt believe me.
And you are beautiful, so dont feel like you are not.
Good Luck
2007-01-29 16:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i was like that with my g/f when she was pregnant. I was scared S**t less that i'd hurt the baby or cause premature labor or whatever. Just be calm an cool an talk to the guy he'll come around. Trust me ;)
2007-01-29 20:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband wasnt really like that with me. but i do know what you are going through. its rough being pregnant and not feeling beautiful because you get bigger, but have you asked him whats wrong? maybe try talking to him about it he might be scared to have intercourse.. some guys are. but if he isnt at all sexual in any way, there might be another reason. but in any effect.. pregnant women are very beautiful. so keep your chin up. every women goes through the feelings that we're not pretty anymore.
2007-01-29 16:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by J.F. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant I would leave little subliminal hints then my man he thought the sex was to potent because of the pregnancy so there was no way he could deny me show him how perky you are keep your head up!
2007-01-29 16:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by JADA B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋