My wife is so sweet to all of her friends like a little old lady. She also can be the biggest flirt in the world when im not around and when i confront her she says that im controlling, When she is not happy she is the meanest coldest person that you have ever met. Is this what they mean by women use their emotions? I mean its like im married to a skitso is this normal she is the only women that ive been with. she is 31 and very attractive am i just a very simple minded person to think this is strange.
2007-01-29 16:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am Clint's Ex- wife. Why does he continue to write **** about me on the Internet? I don't know. It's getting really old. Clint, did we not just talk about this last night? Try to be a grown up and deal with your emotions. I have moved on and am trying to get on with my life. You need to try and do the same. It's not healthy for you to dwell on these issues that should only be between us. That may sound cold, but think about how your actions might change the way I act toward you. Should I be nice as pie when I hear all the rumors that you have supposedly spread? I don' t think so. I hope that you can move on eventually. I really do wish you well and hope that we can try to get along for our kids sake. Please stop and think about that. Our kids should should your only concern, not my life and what I choose to do now. I'm sorry if that hurts you, but it needed to be said. Again.
2007-01-30 03:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Amy s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people put on "heirs" around others and this may be what she feels she has to do around her friends. Flirting may also be something she is just used to doing, especially if you two haven't been married long. Just tell her that you don't want to loose her and that it hurts to think that she might want to be with someone else. Approach it from a different angle possibly. As far as being the meanest, etc...my husband would tell you that I, by far, can be the meanest person in the world (nope, that would be him lol). It sounds like to me that you still need to get to know her, and it takes time.
2007-01-30 00:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by meteor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Clinton S. Here you are again. I thought you weren't married. Are you or aren't you. I am confused. Obviously you have some unresolved issues. Might I suggest again the professional help. Writing about your ex on the Internet isn't considered professional help. Maybe, your ex is cold to you, because of the way you react to things. There are always 2 sides to every story. Yours is only half. Remember you can always email me if you need to just talk. I've been through the same thing with my ex. elliecampton@yahoo.com
2007-01-30 11:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by elliecampton 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Attention getting, insecure, narcissistic, emotional wreck love of your life, right? I have the same type, is sooo sweet to people, displays this image of nice then turns around and bites your head off for some petty misuse of a kitchen towel.
I started ignoring mine. Answer everything with "whatever" and she will hopefully get the hint that you demand to be treated with the respect you deserve. It is real easy to crap on the ones closest to us, what she seems to be doing to you. Nip it in the bud now or it'll be a life of Mr. lap dog for you.
2007-01-30 01:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to women, we need ALOT OF ATTENTION. So inside us if we feel we are not getting the attention we need or want we flirt or flaunt to get it. When it is brought to our attention what we are doing, we get mad. It is kinda like we are trying to tell men something without saying a word and if he gets it then he will respond, if not he will point it out. So more or less give her some undivided attention and when she does flirt try focusing her flirting on you by flirting with her, put your hand on the small of her back when you walk through a room and etc.
2007-01-30 00:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Angeleyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she isn't happy? Maybe she has some unresolved issues from a previous fight or argument. It could of been so long ago she don't even know anymore.
2007-01-30 00:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With such differences of personalities, it's almost as tho she has multiple personalities. I mean actual individuals within herself.
2007-01-30 00:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should try talking to her and tell her how you feel. Maybe she doesn't even realize that she does that. Some people don't. If she is aware and does it intentionally, then sorry dude, but i just don't know.
2007-01-30 00:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has a favorite pair of stiletto heels and you are the door mat she trusts with her shoes.
2007-01-30 00:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate women like that.
2007-01-30 00:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋