What am I suppose to do now that im not attractive to my other that im on a break with right now. I mean in the relationship the passion died ever since I got pregnant. What am I suppose to do and why does he feel this way now?
2007-01-29 16:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by jennyve25 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry i should stress i am not pregnant now.
2007-01-29 16:16:21 · update #1
common law? He never was committed to you. Why would you get pregnant with a man who never wanted to marry you in the first place.
2007-01-29 16:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commonlaw=live in boyfriend
on a break = split up
pregnant = parties over
Pretend if you like but he was never commited to you, you were just a steady piece, next time get a ring before you get a room.
I noticed you said attracted, and not loved, if your relationship was based on attraction alone it was nothing mor then a protracted one nightstand.
2007-01-29 16:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitments are not only made for attractions or for time-being, but also for life time living. remember this all the time. n for ur Q'n to built some passion again, just do some thing, which he really likes and maintain ur figure n try to attract him more n more than ur early days.
2007-01-29 16:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by bindu m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this a couple of years ago. If you have a great family and friends they will help you out through this difficult period.
Look at it is his loss and you can do so much better. Believe me it seems bleak for now but in a couple pf days, weeks or maybe months you will look back and be glad you out of that situation.
2007-01-29 16:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so bad for woman who have babies with selfish men. The only thing you can do is move on and raise your child to the very best of your ability. Learn from this and do better for you and your child in the future.
2007-01-29 16:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is shallow and selfish, and has a faulty belief system, and a warped way of seeing things. its all about his thinking and his thinking controls what he does. can't change how he sees it, unless maybe he is willing to go to therapy. u may be with the wrong man because most men aren't like this.
2007-01-30 01:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. some men can be weird. has he actually told you that he is not attracted to you? if so he's the one with the problem because a lot of men find their mate more attractive when they are pregnant.
2007-01-29 16:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you are pregant and your body has change it will come back after baby born .
2007-01-29 16:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for lust. Sorry about what happen to you. It is what it is.
2007-01-29 16:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by c1523456 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋