my friend is pregnant and i dont know how my mom will react to that. how do i tell my mom that she is pregnant?? im so afraid that she will not let me be around her nomore.
2007-01-29 15:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
please dont ask me questions???
2007-01-29 15:55:57 · update #1
my friend told me to tell my mom
2007-01-29 16:07:30 · update #2
Well, i suggest doing it when she is in a very good mood and do it really nicely. Otherwise, don't tell her at all. Beacause like, my BFF told her mom that I got a boyfriend after the mom hated my already and now the mom hates me a ton more.
2007-01-29 16:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by telling your mom how important this friend is to you. Then, when you've told her the news, let her know that you plan to support your friend in whatever decision she makes about this pregnancy--but ask your mom if she might have any advice. Your friend has three obvious choices: be a mother to this baby, make an adoption plan for this baby, or arrange an abortion. Each of these choices, of course, has many variations. Make it clear that you're trusting your mom with this information, and you expect her to trust you to do right by your friend and remain responsible yourself.
2007-01-29 16:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont pay interest to the jerks telling u to abort if u dont want the newborn provide it up for adoption yet plz dont kill somewhat one i become 18 when I were given preg and it become demanding to inform human beings yet i am going to say ur mom will be disillusioned yet contained sooner or later she nonetheless loves u and needs the most acceptable for u im effective everybody else on your existence will be by technique of urside no count number what so if ur gonna keep it u can ought to inform quicker then later do exactly it say mom I actually have some thing to inform u and that i recognize u wont be at liberty yet its my mistake and im going to be man or woman about it and no count number what keep in innovations this it wasnt a mistake to have the newborn it become the blunders to have sex not in any respect be apologetic about that infant no count number what its a present and thats the way it will be dealt with strong success
2016-12-03 05:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by coratello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off, it's awesome that you want to stick by your friend. The best thing i can say to do is, be completely honest. Let her know that you want to be there for your friend.And your moms main concern may be that you will think it's "cool" to follow in her footsteps, so make sure that you let your mom know that you know that it is a huge responsibility, and that it is worth it to wait. mistakes happen, but you know how to take steps to avoid it (condoms, birth control...) and if you need it, make sure you tell your mother so that she can take you to get those things,it's an awkward talk, but it's VERY necessary.
2007-01-29 19:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by daisy14320022003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom that you are nervous about how to tell her about your friend's situation and that you are not sure how she will react. Your Mom wants nothing more than to have free flow of communication with you. I can tell you, as a Mom, that the scariest thing is not knowing what is going on with your own child. So letting your Mom know that you want to have open communication with her will put her at ease. Let her know that you want to keep her informed about what is going on in your life and that your friendship with this young woman is important to you. Ask your Mom's advice on how to be a good friend to this young woman who finds herself in this predicament. Your Mom will be proud that you have come to her for advice and counsel. Promise your Mom that you will keep her in the loop and thank her for understanding. That's what we want -- to know that you are keeping us apprised of what's going on in your life, and to know you are making smart choices.
2007-01-29 17:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by artemisaodc1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by telling her YOU are pregnant...then say "just kidding, it's actually _________!" She will be so relieved that she wont' care :)
Seriously, just be honest with your mom. Tell her that she raised you to make good decisions and you would like to remain a positive influence in your friends life, especially in such a difficult time. The reality is that once your friend has her baby (if she is keeping it) she won't have a lot of free time to hang out with you anyway. Always remember that your mom is watching out for your best interest. She wants you to be as happy as you possibly can be and even if she overreacts, it is because she wants to keep you safe... always remember to appreciate that. :) good luck sweetie
2007-01-29 16:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by katiebug 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First you should ask your friend first because she might not want so many people knowing that she's pregnant. So ask her if you can tell your mom and then go at it.
2007-01-29 16:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ellion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. "mom, ____ (<- - - her name there) is pregnant, I think that she's a awesome person and I believe that she'll need alot of support through this tough time, so I was wondering if you could possibly tell me some ways I can be a better friend to her during this time?"
2007-01-29 15:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Bring this issue suddenly in the midst of a "not so important conversation".
2007-01-29 23:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ÐiÇŦÅŦŐ®♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insert it casually into a conversation.
Ex. "I'm so worried about so and so. She has been going through such rough times lately. Now, I think she's pregnant..."
2007-01-29 16:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋