i met my ex bf 11/11/06 and we started dating the 14th.. i met him through my old best friend who is gay. he told me that the 2 was dating and i believe him at first but when i spoke to my ex {his bf at the time} he said that he was saying that cause he knew i got a thing for darskin men with long hair and he thought i would hurt him. i KINDA believe him. but 1 night me and my ex {his bf at the time} stayed at over the gay guy house, i turned around and saw them in a DEEP kiss.. but.. me being a dummy, he kept denying EVERYTHING. when my old best friend found out, he came to my house with him and his other cross dressing friends and tried to junmp me for stealing his bf.. now he's locked up for assualt on me {we faught} and he admitted to having relations with a gay man, dont that make him bi sexual? but he tells me he loves, wants me to pick out an wedding dress, the ring, plan it everything. he wants a baby. he wont leave me alone i tell him its over n i dont want him.. what do i do?
2007-01-29 15:34:14 · 12 answers · asked by Shaun J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i've dumped him! i've done everything.. dumped him, changed my phone number, no one knows it but my family and my fam wouldnt give it to him cause he's locked up and no one likes him. he writes me saying using a different name and referes to me as "she" in the letter cause he cant have contact with me and says "baby get your future husband out" "i love u" and im like.. "eww... ur bi sexual i dont want u" then he turns it on me saying "n*ggaz aint going to do nothing but use u and u going to let them, none of them will do u like i do" then when i say i dont want u he says "what, u want me to be pressed over u.. i dont want u.. i dont.. and i dont need u.. never will" then say he said it cause he was mad.. YET he stole money from me, stole my nextel i880 n sidekick 3 from me and threatens me and say that he was mad.. what else can i do for him to leave me alone.. i cant move cause its me and my mom and we cant afford anywhere else
2007-01-29 15:41:53 · update #1
i've cut him off.. changed numbers and all.. he's locked up and cant have any contact with me but he writes me saying "get your future husband out" and im like eww.. i dont want u, leave me the f*ck alone.. but he write me back turning everything onto me makin me feel bad.. because i had dysthymia {depression} i fall easily but this time i wont.. i just dont know what else to do to get him to leave me alone.. ive done an peace/restraining order.. but he writes to me refering me to someone else so i can recieve his letter.. what else can i do??????
but then when i tell him to go to hell and leave me alone, he crys like he's hurts.. plus he gave me and STD {which is treatable thank god} i mean.. ima weak person.. what can i do
2007-01-29 15:49:08 · update #2
Walk away from this mess. Seriously. You don't need this stress in your life. You're too young for this crap sweetheart! Besides, if he's telling you all of this mess and then going behind your back and making out with other guys,.. I don't think I need to answer this for you. I think you know the answer and you just needed to make sure you were on the right track.
Get as far away from that wackjob and get a real man who'll take care of you, and only you.
2007-01-29 15:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need help: (1) Get the police involved
(2) Get a shrink
(3) Get an english writing teacher
2007-01-29 23:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Themby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you want to do is get out of that relationship sturdy and quick! He isnt truly well worth the hassle and isn't any longer something yet hassle with a capital T. pass out and meet yet another guy or lady, what ever, and forget this guy. Theres an previous declaring, fool me once shame on you, fool me two times, shame on me.
2016-10-17 04:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by mcgoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will all work out just give it some more time. i mean, if he doesn't turn out to be a full-blown psycho and slasher, he might decide to just go straight this time. the world is a beautiful place and love will overcome all.
2007-01-29 15:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes him a bi sexual. Also i would dump him. If he lies 2 u about that then he could have lied about other stuff too.
2007-01-29 15:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by adajett 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 words restraining order
2007-01-29 15:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by drawing a flow chart.
2007-01-29 15:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Memphis Lawdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get the police involved in this, he trouble, he all ready
assualt you. time to let him go and move on. he sound like someone that does not get it. but you need to get other involved
so he will know that you are not intersted in him at all.
2007-01-29 15:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i believe in second chances, but if you don't want to.. then it's ok.. just tell him to (4 letteR) off... and leave you alone, you haave no more felings for him and you never will... but then again... SEeecccoonnddd chhaaanccessss.
2007-01-29 15:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that made absolutly no sense to me. you should retype the story so people can read it.
2007-01-29 15:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋