the kids are with father 97% of the time and a need to protect against verble out lash from the other seems to always doing something to hinder her own freindship with the child, and time keeps ticken by its been months . always care to the needs but feel its time to do something
2007-01-29 15:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by RevusEJustofem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a lawyer and if the child is old enough get the to a anylyst, be a psycologist or therapist that way when you go to court, you can prove that your partner is not doing a responsible job of rasing a kind, caring responsible, accountable, independent, and productive adult. Why do you even let the wife see the kid she obviously doesnt care, so i think you need a lawyer, and if you fel the child is in harm call cps, go to a custody discussion forum on the internet to see what other people in your situation did.... good luck, shame on that mother
2007-01-29 15:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not a legal seperation you've got no leg to stand on. In custody matters you HAVE to have at least a LEGAL seperation. The court doesn't recognize it as a seperation if it isn't legal because basically it isn't.
2007-01-29 23:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no difference as you are still married.... It is only legal if it is on paper.
2007-01-29 23:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still married no matter which way you look at it,verbal abuse is abuse, don't let any child go through that just because the parents have given up don't dump your problems on the child. there is enough verbal,physical,and mental abuse in this world
2007-01-29 23:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only difference is if you ever want to remarry to someone else you legally have to be divorced
2007-01-29 23:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce and try to get custody.
2007-01-29 23:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no difference,you are still legally married.
2007-01-29 23:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce - you need to pay her maintenance else she can sue you in court
seperated - no law insist that you need to give her money ....
2007-01-29 23:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the papers.
2007-01-29 23:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋