what is the different between mother love and wife love?

Question

say 1-3 different between mother and wife affection.

Answer 1

your mother will love you no matter what,
your wife will love you as long as you are conforming to her rules and guidlines.

Answer 2

A mother's love is not necessarily unconditional. (I'm surprised I have to point this out.) There are plenty of women out there- and men- who should never have become parents. However, many of us remember only what we want to out of childhood; the 'good' and not the 'bad'.

We may remember being taken care of, and how good it felt being loved and secure. We may remember playing all day and not having a care in the world; our parents took all that upon their own shoulders, most likely. Looking at these memories through rose-colored glasses, who would ever want to grow up?

It is unrealistic to expect your wife (or your husband!) to take care of you the way your mother did. This is because you are no longer a child, but an adult; and with adulthood comes responsibility. Also personal power, influence and authority. Use that power to carve a place for yourself in the world; with your spouse's assistance, the two of you can make your dreams come to life.

P. S. : I like n9wff's answer the best! :-)

Answer 3

A mothers love is unconditional.
A wifes love should be unconditional until you forgot the trash. Picking up your dirty socks, playing golf all weekend. Forgetting the anniversary.

A mother understands you..
A wife doesnt understand why you forgot the trash, or to pick those darn socks up.

A mother knows you will always be there for her no matter what the reason is.
A wife usually has to remind you about all the things you forgot to do at home.....but you can take care of your mothers trash???

Answer 4

Mother -- loves you unconditionally but is the adult authority figure that helped to mold you into the adult you are today. Also, important to note, will not or should not have sex with you and probably doesn't like it if you say things contrary to what she taught you growing up.

Wife -- loves you unconditionally, will have sex with you, loves you for who you are now and really doesn't give a rats backside if you abandon your childhood teachings so long as you stay a decent person/love her in return. A wife is your companion, friend and your helper, your travelling buddy for the road ahead and, if you're lucky, the person who helped you bring your children into the world.

FYI, marriage is rarely 50-50. Sometimes it is. Sometimes one partner has to give 110% to pick up the slack and other times the OTHER partner has to pick up the slack 110%...but if you're a good team you make it to the proverbial finish line in good shape. If you are looking (male or female) for someone to kiss up to you for the rest of your life and always do what you expect of them--better get hired help. Deep relationships aren't built on imbalanced power.

Answer 5

1> Both care for you equally. Both want your well being. But a mother would rather take care that she doesn't hurt you and awife doesn't care if she's hurting you but she will let you know that you are wrong. Mother adjusts to your wrong doings, a wife doesnt't.

2> Both would love to see you onstage gathering awards. A mother would cry of joy and a wife would clap heartily of joy.

3> Both want yo uto take care of yourself. If you don't, the mother does it for you and your wife teaches you how to do that (the hard way out).

Answer 6

Amother loves her children unconditionally but with the knowledge that she is a temporary fixture in their lives and that they will someday have their own life and family to manage. A mother is there to teach and protect them until they are ready for their place in the world. A wofe loves her husband as a partner someone to share life with good and bad. The 2 people work together toward common goals teaching one another.

Answer 7

A mothers love isnt something to work for
she wants the best for you
no special feelings except for that she loves you unconmditinally and treats you as her child and gets you on your ft to do well.

a wifes love should be warm
should have a diffrent feel in your hrt.
should have more affection then ur mother
Brianna

Answer 8

A mother's love is unconditional; it's instinctual and unrelenting. Romantic love is not instinctual, that's why it requires effort. One falls in love romantically becaus eof how the other person makes them feel. that's romantic love and when that person stops making you feel good when you're with him/her and when you hate the way you are and feel around that person, romantic love fades. It fades because it's not instinctual; we're not hard wired to feel it and we feel it only as an experience.
this doesnt mean romantic love isn't fulfilling or amazing or deep. It can be all those things, but it requires both parties wanting it and working toward it. you must feed romantic love to make it last.
A mother's love is boundless. It doesn't depend on any conditions and doesn't fade. When a woman becomes a mother, she learns to walk with her heart outside of her body. It's indescribable.

Answer 9

recently i heard the difference between mother's love and wife's love. Mother's love is like a local language and wife's love is like english, local language is usefull till the secondary education, where as english is usefull till u die, its true, I am not looking down the local language.

Answer 10

a mothers love is doing with out to give to her children being there for them taking care of her kids . a wife love ,respect home maker comuication faithful

Answer 11

Love is always 'LOVE'. There may be father/ mother/ brother/ sister/ wife/ girl friend/ neighbour etc., Only duties/ behaviour changes as per the relations.