my bird"s best friend told my gf i slept with her which was a lie.i think shes a little jealous that iv taken her friend away.now shes not speaking to her friend which shes known her whole life.should i tell her to giv her a 2nd chance shes v upset losin her best friend. any ideas?????
2007-01-29 15:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by nick r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her to give her a second chance. I think your GF's best friend is feeling excluded and insecure with this new change in her life and best friends life. It's kind of different for her and she feels like you're taking away her only friend. Include her and assure her that even though her best friend is your GF things won't change between your GF and her because they'll always be friends.
2007-01-29 15:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really decent guy, not many guys would let something like this go, let along want to forgive and forget !
Yeah, it's upsetting everyone involved, so unless you sort it out you're possibly risking your relationship with your girlfriend too.
She clearly believes that nothing happened with her friend as she's still your girlfriend, but the hurt of losing her best friend is probably too much for her.
Give her a bit of gentle push in the right direction, and once they sort things out ( and they will do, trust me) then you'll all be a lot happier .
Everyone deserves a second chance ( within reason of course) so my advice would be to take a step back and let them work things out.
Good luck .
2007-01-29 17:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Paris69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a hard one isnt it. on the one hand i'd say yes they've been friends a long time and no bloke is worth loosing your friend over however what she did is like the biggest no no in a friendship why would somebody who is meant to love and respect your gf want to say something to her like that that she knows would cause her so much hurt. a true friend would never do that. i'd say leave it up to your girlfriend maybe talk it over with her and ask how she feels etc that to me would be the ultimate betrayel and i dont think personally i could forgive it. the friend should be running through hoops trying to patch this up not the other way round.
2007-01-29 20:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she's jealous....if you know the truth don't worry about it...women can be nasty when need be...no don't tell her to give her a second chance becuse it won't be very long before it all starts up again...forget her and be happy with your girl, he friend is a nasty little maggot, your girl can find a better mate than that thing, she belongs in the gutter, no best friend would even dream of saying stuff like that, unless of course it is true what she said, your girl needs to class up a bit and find decent mates and not a horrible little toerag like her, she's a trouble maker and if you let her back in then she will cause more sh!t between you and your girl...get rid for good
2007-01-29 15:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get them both to sit down and talk to each other.
There must be some reason she has taken this 'action' against you. If you are telling the truth( which i believe you are) it does sound like a case of jealousy. If they were true friends they will be able to talk to and forgive each other. Also tell the 'friend' that you are not taking her away just sharing!
2007-01-29 16:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cockneyrebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to speak about this problem,and together you can sort things out,that's what couples do,her friend doesn't seem a friend if she can do something so horrible,to be honest she is best keeping away from her ex friend she isn't worth it,tell her how upset you are with the situation,just sort things out mate,good luck
2007-01-29 20:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously better off without a friend who tries to hurt her even if her friend was jealous it does not excuse what she has done just be there for you girlfriend. Good luck x
2007-01-29 20:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i reckon you should tell her to give a 2nd chance, at the end of the day you want to make her happy (good for you) she'll find out if shes a true friend in the end anyway we always do and at least she'll still have you!
2007-01-29 15:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not say anything to her like this ,you should wait let ur g/f calm down and u play low key and be who she fell in love with and whatever u do stay away from the birds friend and hope she trust u enough to see the lie from her friend and if not u r screwed ...truth eventually will rise .
2007-01-29 15:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by LORI36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she doesnt need a friend like that who will make up lies to deliberatly hurt her, she will do it again and this time she might believe her. She can find other better friends that are happy for her and look out for her xx
2007-01-29 18:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋