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Do you find that you are more comfortable with a significant other who is not as bright, or as gifted as yourselves. Would you chose someone who does not steal your spot light, or who willingly would go allong with any command you would give. If the lady made a higher income would you mind? Anwser any Q's please.

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For the boys...( do be honest)...?
Do you find that you are more comfortable with a significant other who is not as bright, or as gifted as yourselves. Would you chose someone who does not steal your spot light, or who willingly would go allong with any command you would give. If the lady made a higher income would you mind? If she was more attractive than you? Anwser any Q's please

Answer 1

my wife is a very talented artist, more talent in that department than i, and i am an artist, too.
no, i don't mind when she gets the spot light, she is prettier than me, too
if she makes more money than me that's ok too (presently she doesn't, but she may one day soon, and i'll help her anyway i can)
love doesn't compare these things, i love my wife, therefore i rejoice when she has successes, she doesn't take the spot light away from me when i have my moments, nor do i her when she has her's.
i couldn't stand a woman who would knuckle under to any command i may give...we often joke about that, i'll say "woomann! fetch me my paper and slippers and bring me my supper"...and she just looks at me and raises one eyebrow, (she's so cute when she does that), "you ain't talking to MEwhat are you on, too much coffee maybe"

Answer 2

It is easier to be with a girl who is not as bright, but only at the beginning. After a while, this charming not-so-bright soon reveals that what they have on the surface is all that they have. There is little to discover and the intrigue is quickly lost.

I prefer a girl that would take the spotlight, as I do not like it.

Going along with every command - I wouldn't go that far, but she must be mostly agreeable or at the very least not argumentative. Reasoning with logic is good. Being adversarial for nothing's sake is not.

Make more money? Why not. If she worked for it, she deserves it. My ego is not so fragile that I cannot recognize and be happy for someone that makes more than I.

Answer 3

I honestly cannot tell you. I think I would be fine with it but I don't know. I will never know until I experience it. However, I was with a girl who was much less intelligent than I was, once, and that didn't work out, so maybe I need someone who balances me and shares that same intellect. If I had someone like that we could have discussions that would build our knowledge of the world together. Wow, through typing this I think that I have come up with the answer to your question. I think that I need someone who balances me, with who I can have a conversation with and not feel either superior or inferior. That would be the best relationship ever. Thank you for that question, it has given me some surprising insight. Funny how that happens, isn't it.

Answer 4

I feel much more comfortable with a very bright woman. The position or money would not be a problem, however if when she reaches this point, I don't want her to "Take Over" everything. If I screw up the checckbook, then it's hers if she wants and in any case the checkbook should be open for both at all times.
Having a great conversation in wonderful, you may turn off the TV and be very happy.

Answer 5

I want someone that would question me sometimes. If you're with someone they're supposed to be like your best friend and your equal.

Money doesn't matter to me either. Who cares who makes more money or even if you make the same amount? Love is what matters.

Now if you're talking about some kind of D/s stuff...that's different and a whole other topic. I have my own views about that, that are kinda different but kinda the same.

Answer 6

No i would not because if you are both equal then you will both be better of in life, someone who always answers and does not voice there opinion or what the have to say would just be boring to me, i would love to marry someone as equal as me, who would stand up for herself, fight for what is true and if she made more money i would not mind, it would be a better life for the both of us. I would not want someone beneath me, but some one besides me.

Answer 7

Someone who is not as bright might be fun for an evening, or even a couple of weeks, but when you start looking for the woman of your life, you want an equal.

Answer 8

What i think of (fairly) is you do no longer ought to be together. He referred to as you a hoe and in case you think of hes a participant then he probable is. Being a guy i be attentive to how we are each and every so often, yet understand that each and each physique adult adult males are not like that. only circulate on and he will understand he tousled if he rather likes you. Thats your payback and in keeping with risk that'll wake him up and he will fairly want to be in an prolonged-term relationship.

Answer 9

Actually, I don't mind who's smarter than who, or who steals the spotlight. We all get spotlight time in a group during time anyway. And I like to listen.

Answer 10

It's funny, but these are usually questions that successful, unattractive women ask. I can't keep a man because.... Men just care if you have nice t+a, success and earning ability is irrelevant. It's not them, it's you, trust me.