2007-01-29 15:02:52 · 7 answers · asked by Chris R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can say not tonight dear, i have a headache...
2007-01-29 15:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's normal for a man to be attracted to his wife! What you should worry about is when he STOPS asking you for it!
However, it's also normal for a man (especially a very young, healthy man) to feel an intense need for sexual gratification. Sometimes men have a hard time falling asleep when they're in a state of sexual tension.
Don't shame him when he wants to make love - that's a natural expression of his affection and desire for you. However, you aren't his Xbox or home entertainment system - you don't have to ever give in just to please him.
So instead of saying "No, no! I'm too tired, how dare you importune me thus, you ANIMAL!" maybe try saying, "I'm tired and I don't think I can come right now, sweetheart. But how about this - why don't I hold you and kiss you and whisper dirty nothings in your ear while you make yourself come?"
Either encourage him to masturbate, or try whipping out that Hitachi Magic Wand massager and applying it to the sweet spot right where the shaft of his, ahem, singular male attribute meets his, um, dangly male bits. Then, nibble his neck, kiss him deeply, stroke his chest, and tell him you love him and that he's gorgeous.
Five minutes later, he'll give you a big, grateful, gasping kiss goodnight, and you'll both sleep like babies.
2007-01-29 23:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay on your stomach and tell him to hit it from the back so you can rest, that way when he gets finished you'll both be happy. He got sex like he wanted and you got to rest.
2007-01-29 23:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Castro 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Slip him a sleeping pill.
2007-01-30 11:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just said i am tired... want to have sex.... okie me bottom and u top....... do untill u come.... wakakaka
2007-01-30 01:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by WorkingAroundWithLove 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say not tonight but keep him conforted
2007-01-29 23:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Savannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO!!
2007-01-29 23:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by concerned 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋