my mom thinks i am pregnant but i am not i never done it and she keeps trak with me on my period like when i have it and stuff like that and she thinks that because i didnt get it since christmas! and yes i haev been working out and running trying to loose weight but yea what shud i tell her !
2007-01-29 15:02:30 · 18 answers · asked by Zahera♥ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
how old are u? i went through the same thing with my mom when i started my period... i was 16 {late bloomer} but when i did and i became sexually active she would go into the bathroom to check my pads to make sure there was blood and nothing fake. i didnt know she did that until i was almost 17. but before i found out she was doing that, she always ask me when i came on, how long, do i have any spottin. she sometimes felt like an period 5days out the month, and SOON as i come on like 2-3 days late. on the 2nd day she takes me to the docs for a preg test. then one day i got tired of it and told her to stop. i know thats ur mom and u respect her but let her know your period is your business and not hers. if u dont stand up to her, she wont stop
2007-01-29 15:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shaun J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you will take a test. If you have never had intercourse, then the test will definitely be negative. Then she will know you are telling the truth.
If you are having irregular periods, then you may be working out a little too hard, hon. You should see a physician about your irregular period. It can be caused by a number of things. If you are suffering from an eating disorder, you are especially at risk...be careful, hon.
2007-01-29 15:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Chicken! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reassure your mom that you are not pregnant by being honest. First you need to tell her that if she suspects you are pregnant that maybe she should go out and purchase a home pregnancy test for you. Make sure when you do tell her to do this that you are nice about it and sincere. A crappy attitude will not get you anywhere except maybe into a fight with your mom. Second, I would have a talk with her letting her know that you would like to start developing a trusting relationship. Let her know that if she starts trusting you it makes it easier to discuss things like pregnancy and sex with her. What if one day you did become pregnant? Wouldn't you want to beable to talk about it with someone you love and trust? I know I would!!
2007-01-29 15:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by wannagotohawaiitomorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age, your periods won't be very regular unless your on the pill. Also, if your on a hard core exercise regimen, that can alter your cycle as well. Talk it out with your mom like to women. If you've never had sex, you have nothing to worry about and neither does your mom.
2007-01-29 15:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by rick and lydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight up,mom just chill,and please listen to me.I have not had sex so there is no way I can be pregnant.Let her know that is the truth and that yes you may have missed a period which happens sometimes especially b.c you're overwhelming your body.Let her know that you are trustworthy & is not planning on having a baby.
2007-01-29 15:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other reasons for being late besides pregnancy. Stress, or maybe just the fact you been working out lately. Are you eating properly? I would take a home pregnancy test(make your mom buy it) just to shut her up..... She should trust you, and trust that you haven't had sex.
2007-01-29 15:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your a virgin!?? then obviously your not pregnant!
What reason does you mom have to think you pregnant?
To settle it do a test and prove it to her if she stills questions you.
Are you eating properly ? have you lost alot of weight? cause that might be whats causing your period to be MIA.
2007-01-29 15:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by missjewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i would sure be offended if i were you and my mom didn't belive me that i hadnt had sex. Well you could explain to her its about the wegiht loss but she might make you cut down on your excerisize plan or eat more or something. tell her youll prove you not preg by taking a home preg test!!! then cry and say see mom belive me next time it sure hurts you dont belive me!
2007-01-29 15:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to buy you a pregnancy test and to wait a few days and take it, also tell your mom that young girls your age don't have their periods on the exact start date of their cycle, and that exercising and losing weight can be a contributing factor to having a late period. you got nothing to hide, let the girl test ya.
2007-01-29 15:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Exercise and youth both are causes of irregular periods. Only sex is a cause of pregnancy. I think a simple "Mom, it's impossible" should suffice.
2007-01-29 18:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋