getting in your way and even questioning about your choice ?? Why are they like that?? Do you think I have some kind of personality conflict with them or something? What if you hate to move and just can't get yourself to move and start new at a new place, what can you do??
2007-01-29 14:55:23 · 6 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Is that like a personality conflict with the neighbour?
2007-01-29 14:57:16 · update #1
I mean like when I have made a conscious choice to do something, neighbours have been getting in my way and even question about that. But, it's already like a conscious choice on my part, so it is kind of annoying that they are still questioning it or getting in the way.. What's there to question about someone else's conscious choice or make them feel uncomfortable about it??
2007-01-29 15:04:02 · update #2
I don't mean all those illegal things. I just mean conscious choice to live the kind of life I like or do whatever I like (not illegal or bad things), or be whoever I am supposed to be or simply just trying to things done, be on time for my work, be able to get some peace of mind, care about things I care about.... I just feel like people seem to have questions about that... It's not like it's anything illegal or bad, you know..
2007-01-29 15:07:41 · update #3
It is just like a feeling I have. I feel as though like everyone is looking at me as though I did something wrong or something... but it's not like I have done anything wrong and they are looking at me... I think maybe I am just too outspoken or think too much of myself as being important or something... I don't know.. I think it is some kind of personality conflict with my neighbour.
2007-01-29 15:14:53 · update #4
you need to be cautious.
you may wish to know more of their discomfort.
is it something you may/must accept responsibility for...? or ..
is it something which is over-blown and dangerous..?
are you youth..? at risk yourself..?
you need to ask if you are in a potentially high risk environment.
you may would change your mind if you knew more about their choice(s) . but do you ask them the cause of their discomfort.
it is what i would do.
but then.....that do not provide guarantee of respects.
can you pull it off ...asking them if there are any hard feelings/ideas between you....? sure you can.
***crossesfingers***
be well
2007-01-29 15:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by noninvultuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people make it a habit of making other peoples business their own. A question I have learned to ask people like that is this:
Why is it a concern of yours? You don't have to get nasty when you ask it or anything like that, just having a quizzical look on your face will do. They will either get the hint, or still try to make it their business, which then prompts the response from me that the problem is theirs, and not mine. That is simply stating the truth. They may need to be reminded from time to time, but eventually will stop bothering you.
2007-01-29 23:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you've made a "conscious choice" to do. If you've chosen to run a meth operation out of your house or something, no that's not a personality conflict, that's your neighbor reporting you to the cops.
2007-01-29 23:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you even asking here? If you "can't get yourself" to do whatever then enjoy the misery and enjoy being a victim.
2007-01-29 22:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to give an honest answer if you don't say what this choice is.
Is it legal??
2007-01-29 23:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have no idea
2007-02-04 14:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by jerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋