How do I ask a girl to be my Valentine who just went thru a break up?

Question

Ok so there is this girl who i sorta like. She has just gone out of a relationship with a guy who she has been going out with for I think a month and she was crying. (he broke up with her) Im not sure if shes the kind of girl who doesnt like to break up then go out with someone else right away. Im afraid to ask her because i dont know if it will make her wonder if i would do the same to her because i wouldnt.

Answer 1

I wouldn't really ask her to be my Valentine. I'd try to be nice to her on Valentine's Day because you know she'll be hurting. Try to make her feel special that day. Who knows? She might make you her Valentine for the rest of the year. I just know that if a guy just dumped me, I really wouldn't be thinking about having a Valentine. Sorry man, that's just bad timing. But it is only one day. At least you could spend it with her without making her uncomfortable. Just concentrate on her feeling better.

Answer 2

Okay, this girl may be having a difficult day. Don't ask her to be your valentine quite yet Romeo......acknowledge her attributes this day, tell her she looks "especially beautiful", inquire as to how she is doing. Acknowledge that you know about her recent break up and casually ask her if she'd like to go grab a coffee or a bite to eat. Suggest that you walk so that you can engage in some conversation, sympathize with her loss of the boyfriend but do tell her she is better off with him. Stop and buy her a single rose and tell her that she is special to you!!!!!!

Answer 3

you should just think of something really sweet to surprise her with on valentines day and see how that goes first so she can get to see that you are a good guy. dont move things too fast.

Answer 4

Good luck.